My new boyfriend of 2 months is a fireman and he's been gone for a week fighting forest and grass fires. I cant help but be worried about him even though he calls every 24 hrs. I couldnt eat for the first few days and was shaking from being so worried about him. Basically my question is- if you have ever dated a fireman or someone in a dangerous line of work how to you get over being worried about them all the time?
2006-07-15 15:47:14 · 4 answers · asked by ms mystery 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't ever get over it, or stop worrrying about them, but it gets easier to deal with on a daily basis.
Give it time..he's lucky to have someone worrying over him.
2006-07-15 15:50:19 · answer #1 · answered by jayfer1976 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well anytime u date or msrry anyone who has a dangerous job u can't help but worry and for good reasons.
But to answer u, I would worry but I would try to accept the fact that as long as I heard from him and he asures me he's doing fine then it may ease the worry.
And when he's home I would make every moment count.
2006-07-15 16:03:34 · answer #2 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was dating someone who was fighting over in iraq and when he first left i cried everynight... then one night he told me to start thinking positive thoughts and i did... it worked for a long time.. then he came home and 4 weeks later he was drafted back... then after about a month he was killed... but just think positive thoughts it'll get better...
2006-07-15 15:54:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-06 10:39:54 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋