i really want to kiss my bf. we have been going out for over a month now and we havent kissed yet, but i really want to. i love him alot, and i think that kissing him would bring us closer together. i think we havent kissed yet because we are both afraid of what the other person might think. ive asked a question like this before and ppl have just told me to "go for it" but im way to afriand to too afraid to ( yes i have tried to kiss him but i chickened out before i even turned to kiss him!!!). what do you think i should do?
2006-07-15 15:40:13 · 11 answers · asked by hmmmm..... 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, I remember situations like this. A first kiss can be a monumental gesture.One to be remembered but the truth is your first kiss should not be a serious one. Let it be a thank you kiss for some reason, be aware and wait for him to kiss you back. It's the third one during that encounter that you'll remember always.
Remember he's just as nervous as you and he may fear rejection.Go for it.
Good luck,
Three Rivers
2006-07-15 15:48:59 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a relationship the thing that most people need to do is to over come fear. Because once you have fear in the mind the relationship won't go anywhere, so that is why you need to get over that fear and start being more confidence about yourself. You just need to ask yourself what's more important too you? Looking dumb infront of your love one or trying to improve on the relationship that the both of you made possible without fear of being rejected. I can't do anything but give you a prep talk. So you go girl!
2006-07-15 22:55:07 · answer #2 · answered by Berties 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously u're quite young,but it's ok,it takes time,take it slow.maybe that time wasn't the right moment to kiss ,just go with the flow,there will be a moment u guys kiss each other;-)
2006-07-15 22:50:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i once had the same problem. Here's what to do: Look at him constantly when you're alone. He'll catch on eventually. Don't always talk. Just gaze and then it'll all come at the right moment.
2006-07-15 22:58:45 · answer #4 · answered by Confuzed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
When the two of you are in eachothers company...
And he does something that you think is say,very cute,or sweet...
Just give him a little peck on the cheek...
As this will,"break the ice"as they say...
And a dollar to a doughnut...
He will ask you for a kissssss...
2006-07-15 22:47:57 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just kiss him...what is the worst thing that could be happen?
get out your nerves it will be worse if you dont
2006-07-15 22:45:47 · answer #6 · answered by Robinson G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a month and no kiss? you have to make a move. get over your fears and just do it. youll have time to improve.
2006-07-15 22:43:31 · answer #7 · answered by standstill 22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well do it the yound school way. ask him does he want to kiss you and if he says yes then coutn to three and close your eyes and go for it
2006-07-15 22:43:51 · answer #8 · answered by gotchafool05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop some not so subtle hints to him that you wouldn't mind.
2006-07-15 22:44:06 · answer #9 · answered by cypher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't chicken out.
2006-07-15 22:44:05 · answer #10 · answered by Niceguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋