because i'm fat and i have some strechmarks, people tell me i'm pretty and shouldn't be thinking that but I just want to be happy, sometimes I think i'm never going to have sex again because of the strechmarks, they're not that bad but still, I feel like a failure..I sometimes wish I was anorexic.
2006-07-15 15:37:45 · 10 answers · asked by Svetlana 2 in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
with the lights off no ones is going to care....
2006-07-15 15:41:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't EVER feel that way. If people tell you that you are pretty you should believe them. If you feeel bad about yourself take some initiative and go out for a run, or joing a pilates class. Exercise produces endorphines which really do make you more happy and upbeat. The exercise will also help you lose excess weight if you think you really have a weight problem. Don't ever wish you were anorexic. Its a serious illness and it only makes problems more complicated and worse.
2006-07-15 15:43:10 · answer #2 · answered by run like whoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you need a reality check. If you are upset because you have stretchmarks is small considering other things that could be wrong. You have not given us good information. What is your definition of fat? If it is a size 12-16 than you are in the normal range of woman. If you are above a size 26 than you may be fat but by exercising, eating properly, and getting counseling for your negative thought patterns than you can change your life the way that you want.
2006-07-15 16:04:04 · answer #3 · answered by andy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For stretchmarks rub on flaxseed oil on it and drink some (health food stores sell it). Then eat advocado, nuts and seeds for good fat to help it.
It is mostly NOT your fault, if you need to lose weight. The way you have been taught to eat is responsible for making obesity the number one health problem in the world (according to Atlantic Monthly magazine) replacing hunger and infectious disease. So you are a victim of this pandemic (epidemic). You need to re-learn how to eat so you can become thin.
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2006-07-15 16:13:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you need to chill... Strechmarks should not be an issue. Many girls have them and they don't make it a big deal. They are normal and a lot of people have them. I have them due to me weightlighting however they don't stop me from wear tank tops or even taking my shirt off.. So cool down girl and be happy with yourself....
2006-07-15 15:42:50 · answer #5 · answered by El flaco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Homeopathic Treatment for Excessive Fat and Weight :-
PHYTOLACCA BERRY's Mother Tincture is perhaps the safest and sure fire way of loosing excessive fat around abdomen. With Phytolacca Berry once you loose the excessive fat and weight you don't get it back because you body takes care of itself after that and keeps you from gathering up excessive fat. It is prescribed after having a baby too, to get the tummy to loose its flab and to make it flatter and tighter. And after loosing weight with this you don't get flabby it tightens up the flab and skin along with helping your body to shed the excessive accumulation of fat around the girth
The dosage is 15 to 20 drops of the tincture in half a cup of hot water thrice a day half hour before or after meals.
Avoid Chocolates, Coffee, Mints, Red Meat and Carbonated and Alcoholic drinks while taking Homeopathic Medicines. You have to take it for at least 30 to 45 days after that you start to feel the results.
To the best of my knowledge its the safest and the most sure fire way of loosing fat and weight and keeping it of for keeps. Excellent remedy for Obese people who cant seem to shed weight despite trying.
Homeopathic Remedies can be found at all Major Herbal Stores or could be bought on line, In most of the world Homeopathic remedies are quite cheap and easy to find and they do not need a prescription.
Take care and God Bless !
2006-07-15 18:25:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, don't be so hard on yourself. Stretchmarks happen(I've had three kids, I know all about them:P). And you don't want to be anorexic. Just eat right, exercise, wear clothes that flatter your figure, and love yourself, and you will find someone that doesn't give a wit about your stretchmarks. Hope that helps.
2006-07-15 15:43:21 · answer #7 · answered by littlevivi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. But, just live life as it is. I mean, if you want to have sex, then the person you are having it with shouldn't care if he loves you. If he is irritated by them, dump him.
But, just exercise, cocoa butter softens them and helps them not to be so noticeable.
2006-07-15 16:26:41 · answer #8 · answered by Mo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just use cocoa butter on your stretchmarks and get into some after school activities.
2006-07-15 15:43:26 · answer #9 · answered by ladie.bug#1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-07-15 19:09:26 · answer #10 · answered by anyways_fukitol 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋