Okay, I had to ask this question. I'm 15 turning 16. I'm allowed to date, as long as my mom and dad meet the guy. But its the particular guy I've been eyeing; and I know he's been eyeing me as well. He's 16, he lives directly across the street from me, and whenever he's on the porch, and I'm on the porch, he'll stare at me, then oddly look away. And the other day, he was crossing the street, I happened to not look at him at first, but I did a quick glance at him, and he was staring at me as well, but he looked away quickly. Today, he crossed the street on my side, because his grandma lives on my side of the street, but 5 seconds later, he crossed back over to his side. Also, he was standing in front of his, just standing, and I was on the porch, and I usually get a feeling when someone is looking at me, and I believe he was. My mom told me that his mom wanted to see our sales papers, she doesnt do this often, but she told me that she was going to send him over to get the papers. Help!
2006-07-15 15:25:53 · 17 answers · asked by Danyizzle 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How cute, well if ur family knows his family then it may be ok to date him since u live acrss the street from each other. And the quick glances and stares are a sure sign that he likes u. And I'm sure he knows u like him to,
U know this could be ur future husband =-)
So why don't u talk with ur mom 1st about him and that way may be u and her can work on ur dad together. =-)
Good Luck
2006-07-15 15:34:07 · answer #1 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!
2006-07-15 20:45:46 · answer #2 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw, that's so cute. ^^ Yeah, they're not mixed signals though, I think he likes you. I mean there's always that possibility he's a nut but most fun people are, so go with it. :p When he comes over just try to start some generic conversation... I can't think of any good conversation starters at the moment, I'm sorry.@_@ If he sees he can talk to you though, he'll feel more comfortable later talking to you and maybe you guys can start something. Good luck, hun. Tell me how it goes. :)
2006-07-15 15:38:39 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah . 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You a great flirt but maybe he's not ready for a relationship with you. You gotta give him time or simply the next time yall alone, then just add going out in the conversation. It worked for me.
2016-03-27 07:01:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those are not mixed signals, they are all GOOD signals. He likes you a lot, and is very interested, and trying to let you know without coming out and saying it. Like a lot of guys, he is very afraid to say anything to you, and you seem to be afraid to say anything to him. You both obviously know that each of you is interested in the other. Go ahead, make the first move.
Let me know how you do!
2006-07-15 15:29:19 · answer #5 · answered by Jeffrey S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If seems as if you'll feel each other and you should be the one to make the first move you never know that might be a big turn on.
2006-07-15 15:30:00 · answer #6 · answered by babyshay926 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go say HI You will find out then. Your parents would proboly like him since he lives right there next to you.
2006-07-15 15:29:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First try to become his friend and then slowly increase ur relationshiop toward the love and dating. Don't feel nervous to talk to him just do it!
2006-07-15 15:36:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ion kno he could just be being nosy or he could like u and be shy or he likein what he see how about u speak to him one day start a conversation of interest and see where it goes i have the same situation just sorta differet
2006-07-15 15:30:13 · answer #9 · answered by nina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he comes to get the papers just start a light convo. say "hey. How are you?"
To me he seems to really like you.
Goodluck.
2006-07-15 15:34:57 · answer #10 · answered by krystal d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋