I met this guy online about 2 years ago..we got to know each other a lot and talking on the phone..and he lives about an hour away but ive never met him, because were only 14 and agreed to talk about meeting in person when we are both older ..but we started having an "online relationship" kind of thing..then he dumped me..but we are like..the best of friends..and i dont think he has the feelings for me like as a "girlfriend" anymore... and a few months ago he started liking this girl who lived right near him and ..and i ended up helping him with the courage to ask her out..and i was really happy for him..but then i actually ended up feeling happier when they stopped going out.. but ive never stopped thinking about him for as long as ive known him...and im afraid that i actually really "love" him.. but i dont know.. do i still have feelings for him? and if theyre stronger than i thought..what do i do?
2006-07-15 14:40:57 · 8 answers · asked by rsoxfan243433 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't be afraid of love.
Tell him that you still have feelings for him,no matter how hard it may be. You may lose freindship, but you'll always regret not knowing what might have been if you had only said that you loved him.
Honesty is always the best policy! :) good luck
2006-07-15 14:45:27 · answer #1 · answered by Albireo 2 · 22⤊ 1⤋
Ok... first off. Welcome to online love. *smiles* I've gotten used to it.
Second off... you either need to let this go, or tell him. And if he says that he isn't interested... then let him go. Keep him at arms reach.
I have an online bf at the moment. Name is Mike.
He's promised to marry me, give me kids the whole nine yards, but I know here *taps my chest* that he will never give me any of that because he can't be trusted. He lies to me, he cheats on me and when I comfront him or try to break it off, he lies to cover his lies... it's a mess.
I had my best friend (male) come visit me for my 18th birthday, my bf was... insanely jealous. But he's gotten over it. The reason being? I trusted my best friend more then I trust my bf because as with ALL (not just love) online relationships, you can't trust them like you can trust the people in your life for real. And even then you can't trust them any further then you can throw them.
Mike is 18, I'm 18, I'm in love with a man who is 18 now but will be 19 soon... so honestly I'm a fine one to give you information such as this.
But no matter what... use your head. Always ALWAYS use your common sense. If it doesnt feel right... do not let anyone do anything to you. Or meet up with you. Or tell you somthing you don't think you should hear or know about.
2006-07-15 21:53:14 · answer #2 · answered by Snapper_Turtle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Child what is wrong with you kids today. Don't you all know about the saying boys and books don't mix. Now is the time for you to be having fun with your girlfriends, going to the mall, studying. Not having relationships, especially online. Child enjoy your youth you have a lot of time to have relationships and meet guys.
2006-07-15 21:47:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you don't want to hear you are too young I'm sure you hear it all the time but Hun you are there is 1000's of boys out there don't waste your time wishing you had that one you will find true love and he is just not it.
2006-07-15 21:43:40 · answer #4 · answered by §†êþhåñïê»-(¯`v´¯)-» 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur only 14 theres plenty more out there forget him plus youve never met him he could be ugly and it would be a waist of time
2006-07-15 21:43:55 · answer #5 · answered by gogita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it can be difficult to keep some distance, but you should not commit emotionally to someone you haven't met.
given that you are really interested in him you should try to arrange a meeting.
2006-07-15 21:54:11 · answer #6 · answered by leadbelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont take it that seriously girl. u havent even met the boy. for all u know, he could be lying.
2006-07-15 21:42:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX Be careful, be very careful. There are a lot of perverts online pretending they are who they aren't.
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2006-07-15 21:43:20 · answer #8 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋