ok, im going to go on my first date and the guy im going with really wants to kiss me. should i let him? should i not?
2006-07-15 14:40:35 · 27 answers · asked by BrownEyedQT 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go ask your dad and let me know what he says.
2006-07-15 14:44:17 · answer #1 · answered by Craig 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think when u kiss on a first date makes u look desperate looks like u always kiss on first dates. tell ur date u dont kiss on first dates. sounds like this guy really wants this kiss if u tell u dont kiss he will want the kiss more and wait till at least the next date.
2006-07-15 14:46:02 · answer #2 · answered by Cute butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't kiss him just because he wants to kiss you. Kiss him only if YOU want to. If this is your first kiss you want it to be with someone very special to you. See how you feel at the end of the date. Good luck and take your time; you've got lots and lots of kisses ahead of you, don't rush.
2006-07-15 14:44:06 · answer #3 · answered by mab5096 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go close to him like put ur lips close to him, make the best impression, if he starts comming close, dont break the moment, slowly both of u will be attracted (please have all cellphones switched off at these times) and then when u start if u naturally start felling fireworks and fell really good about it ur leg will pop up like ya and then u will know if it was right or worng. and a kiss is not much like ur not doing anything bad until it is at "that" level (this level: u plus me, subract the clothes, divide the legs and lets multiply lol) so ya im not a girl so i dont know much but ya
2006-07-15 14:51:05 · answer #4 · answered by simpsons.megafan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm...to kiss or not to kiss. That is entirely up to you. Every individual has a different view on this subject. Do what makes you feel good and don't worry about what others are doing. I don't think there is a book out there that explains this subject?
2006-07-15 14:43:33 · answer #5 · answered by oklahoma_whistle_britches 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see how you feel at the end of the date. if you really made a good connection with him and your comfortable with him and you like him and want to go on a second date then a little kiss wont hurt, i say go for it! =]
2006-07-15 14:42:41 · answer #6 · answered by Alexandra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would depend on how fast you want to take it. He can't force you to kiss him short of physically forcing you. You shouldn't let a guy pressure you to take it any faster than what you want. Never let anyone do that. Only kiss him if you want to. It's like the old proverb. "You can take a horse to the water but you can't make him drink."
2006-07-15 14:45:13 · answer #7 · answered by Greg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you say "kiss", you actually just mean kiss, right?
Ok. But let him know that's all he's going to get.
2006-07-15 14:43:20 · answer #8 · answered by trixwagen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. It's a must. Otherwise I would be looking for another first date.
Just kidding. This explaing why I'm still without my better half! Anyway, wish you you enjoy all the kisses.
2006-07-15 14:46:07 · answer #9 · answered by Jean V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Though it is o.k. and proper to do so, it is not an unsaid rule that one has to kiss on the first date. The choice should be up to you. If you don't want him to, then just say, "Lets just hug instead."
2006-07-15 14:44:25 · answer #10 · answered by rhino 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That just depends on how you feel about him.....if you really like him and would like to kiss him too, go ahead, it's not like you'll be having sex with him or anything right?? If you feel comfortable with him and doing that, I say go for it, but if you're not comfortable don't do it....Don't do something you don't feel comfortable doing! Good Luck
2006-07-15 15:31:03 · answer #11 · answered by hey_tiger_83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋