My friend is the nicest person you will ever meet,her and hubby has been trying for 2 years 5 misscariages,got insiminated loss 2 that way,now he wants permission to try with someone else but stay with my friend.Ladies what do you think about this?My friend is 36 and he is 29.She also has 2 teenagers.She looks so pityful,any advice?
2006-07-15 14:25:35 · 17 answers · asked by dccuttie75 6 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
That is bullshit. If they want to use a surrogate that's different. It's medically inseminated not physically. tell your poor friend to dump the loser if that's what he wants
2006-07-15 14:31:05 · answer #1 · answered by Kookie M 5 · 6⤊ 1⤋
36 is the cut off age for child bearing years. after that you are taking risks for certain birth defects. it seems to me that her body has already told her NO I am not going to have anymore kids. she has teenagers and she wants more? crazy indeed. so then HE wants to try to get another lady pregnant? is that what I am reading? I think the whole thing is a little out there. he should love her and love those kids from a previous. going some where else to get satisfaction for a baby is crossing the line of marriage or common law marriage. he obviously doesn't know the whole ordeal that a pregnant woman takes on or cares. Its like hey honey lets have a baby okay I'll just go down to the store to get one. should I pick up some bread while I'm there? that's his thinking!!!! you as a friend need to put your foot in the asss of your friend and get her head out of the clouds before its wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy to late.
good luck and don't forget to DO THE RIGHT THING!
2006-07-15 21:37:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend should dump her Neanderthal husband. His tired self isn't worth the time of day. He's just looking for an excuse to be unfaithful. Tell your friend to find a good man and adopt some kids. Good luck to her.
2006-07-15 21:42:05 · answer #3 · answered by Werecatwoman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she already has teenagers then why would she want a baby now? her kids are more than half way out into the real world. Tell her she needs to tell her husband that it is over, he obviously wants kids and should have the chance to have them with someone else. But she doesn't have to be with him. I know I wouldn't want to be.
2006-07-15 21:39:41 · answer #4 · answered by tricksy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's very sad. Maybe trying a surrogate but he should not be allowed to TRY with some one else! Not in that way! That is a surefire way to mess up their relationship entirely.I wish them all the best. take care
2006-07-15 21:31:51 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ jojo ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm with Pandasrfriendly. They should just try abortion because his suggestion is WACK and kinduf disespectful. Even though they have went through so much stuff and he probably really wants a baby he should notice that having a baby with another chick is we-tall-dead!
2006-07-15 21:54:07 · answer #6 · answered by mieka_brat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her husband sounds like a loser. No he can't have a baby with someone else. It would be different if he asked her "Hunny, lets hire a serrogate or how eva u spell it mother." But trying with someone else is not a good idea.
2006-07-15 21:31:36 · answer #7 · answered by *Shayla* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is heartless and immature, shes doing all this to make him a dad ,tell her to find a man and settle down and enjoy the children she has already as they grow up and go on to better things ,,and he 's probably already out ther trying other vaginas out ,,if he loved her it wouldnt matter,, but he's immature and not a real man ,,he should be a father already,, to her children,, isnt that enough to count as being a man
2006-07-15 21:32:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its pretty rare that a guy would want children that badly. But I can understand why he wants to leave a legacy. It sounds like he has tried with his wife, and that she is unable to produce children, but he still wants to be with her and have children of his own. What is the big deal?
2006-07-15 21:30:22 · answer #9 · answered by InnerCircle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They could look into getting a surrogate mother. Where they put your friend's egg and his sperm into that woman and she would just be having their baby for them
Go to this doctor's website... He does the surrogate thing
Dr. Richard Levin at http://www.babies-by-levin.com
or if they want to adopt go to http://www.adoption.com
Good luck
2006-07-16 03:49:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your friend needs to ditch this guy, if he really cared for her he NEVER would have said anything like that to her. Your friend needs to find a man who really loves her and supports her. I'm so sorry to her about her losses.
2006-07-15 21:31:58 · answer #11 · answered by jj02 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋