be somewhat specific. Would he stick up for you even if you are wrong? Is he your hero or a wimp? Does he hurt you or pull you up? Is he a father and a good one? How would you feel if your husband did not defend you??? Please add how long you have been married too. Share your story. Thank you.
2006-07-15 14:05:37 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Be careful not to compare your hub to what someone else "says" about their husband. That leads to coveting what your neighbor has.
2006-07-15 14:10:50 · answer #1 · answered by robertonduty 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have been married for 5 years this coming September 29, been together for almost 7 years, friends for 15 years. I have a daughter who is 6.5 years old. She was adopted by my husband because her father walked out after I found out I was pregnant with her. Our daughter has him wrapped around her pinky finger. If his baby wants something, you better believe that she is going to get it. My husband defends me for the most part, unless I am at battle with his mother (which usually doesn't happen).
I wouldn't say that he is either a hero or a wimp. We have faced some pretty bad times. I lost a baby shortly after we were married, and he was there to pull me through that. Then in 2003, I was driving to work one day when I was hit head on by a garbage truck.. I ended up in a wheelchair for almost a year and losing our second child together. While fighting depression, he stayed by my side and help me learn to walk again. On days when I had enough, he was there. He is now my best friend and I am his. When we married our wedding verse was "this day I marry my friend". That is so true still to this day.
2006-07-15 19:34:41 · answer #2 · answered by Someonesmommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will tell you what kind of husband I am, I would stick up for my wife no matter what the circumstances, and if she was wrong, we would discuss it later, by ourselves. I sometimes forget to be a husband since My little angel 2 year old daughter is so demanding and I am so spoiling. But I do remember from time to time and take my wonderful wife out for a night on the town when a surprise babysitter shows up. I am 6 foot 4 inches at 300 pounds and very skilled in self defense, I am a private investigator by trade and would DIE for my wife before I let anything happen to her. We have been together for 5 years and married for 2.
2006-07-15 14:12:08 · answer #3 · answered by MICHIGAN PI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To answer your questions: depends on what the situation is and I'm ok with that, hero, pulls me up, excellent father, it might bother me a little, and almost 3 years.
I absolutely love my husband. He is an amazing father and a very good husband. Sure there are some areas he can improve on, but I'd be lying if I said I was a perfect wife. He's a good Christian man with strong moral and family values. He is my best friend and I couldn't imagine being happier with anyone else.
2006-07-15 15:43:36 · answer #4 · answered by Amy Lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I have been married for a year, and he is gorgeous. He has very strong convictions, and we debate a lot.... he doesnt like to be wrong, but will grudgingly admit when I make sense. We compliment each other. He does his best to pull me up when I am down (not always in the best way, but I know he tries!) He is not a dad yet, but wants it more than anything in this world. He will always defend me in public, but if he did not really believe I was right, he would then talk to me about it in the privacy of our own home. Don't get me wrong, he definitely has his faults too, (some of them big ones), but I try to look at the positives, and that far outweighs the faults. He is my rock, and I am his.
2006-07-15 14:14:13 · answer #5 · answered by spinksy2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is an excellent father, and provider. He works hard at being a good dad and giving everything he can to his family. He would defend me and our children until the day he dies.
But he cheats.
There's good and bad in everybody.
2006-07-15 16:24:57 · answer #6 · answered by dannyl410 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been married for 10 years to a frozen in time late 1980's metal head..
actually I think his mind got froze sometime around 1993...
He is a good guy, but set in his ways..likes things his way and his way only sometimes..
He is good to our daughter..
Some thongs are a bit rough right now, we dont see eye to eye on where we should be financially and in our lives..but we can work through it, just like everything else..
2006-07-15 14:11:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I have been together for 6 years, married for four years. He is absolutely my hero, and my best friend, too. He is the best gift God has ever given me.
My favorite things about him: he's so smart, and not only about academic sorts of things, but also about people things. He's very insightful, and even communicates very well (rare for a man). He writes me poems, and writes messages to me on our bedroom wall in glow-in-the-dark ink. He buys me flowers, and writes nice things about me on our bathroom mirror with my make-up. He's honest with me, even when being honest is hard and hurtful for him. He makes me feel comfortable, confident, and secure in his love for me - like, I feel like I never have to worry about him cheating, or not wanting me anymore if I gain ten pounds.
My least favorite thing: using the bathroom after him! (Although, he is learning the value of lighting a candle in there . . .) :D
2006-07-15 14:58:59 · answer #8 · answered by Curly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Information about veteran's day?
2017-03-22 11:19:39 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband is a great father and great partner. we have been married for 11 years through good and bad times and through deployments for the war. he is my best friend period. i love him!!
2006-07-15 15:07:49 · answer #10 · answered by Caligurll28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋