2006-07-15 13:56:43 · 23 answers · asked by raytech20002001 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes. Keep your mouth shut. She has chosen her partner and you need to respect her choice and let her make it work. That's what a real friend would do.
BTW, I don't envy your situation. But, if you really care about her, let her go on with her life.
2006-07-15 14:01:19 · answer #1 · answered by Otis F 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You know the answer to that......Of course you keep your mouth shut, and very shut! If she's happily married why would you do something like that? You think she's gonna leave her husband for you? If you really love her, let her be happy with the man she chose...If she's happy you should be happy that she is even if it's not with you, that's real love, but if you feel like you should have her no matter what, then let me tell you that you don't love her at all, and that you only think about yourself!!! Love is sacrifice, so let her be with the man she chose! Good Luck
2006-07-15 22:38:54 · answer #2 · answered by hey_tiger_83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh hell yeah you keep your mouth shut. If you dont you'll loose her or make her feel awkward whenever the three of you are together witch will lead to you getting pushed out of the picture. She's married , move on.
2006-07-15 21:04:07 · answer #3 · answered by Jimbo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in love with my best friend and I'm going to tell him next week, so I know how you feel. And he is married also. But a racking my brain over it, I decided to, because even though he is married that doesn't mean he doesn't feel the same. Go for it, and good luck.
2006-07-15 21:00:29 · answer #4 · answered by hateizmybestfriend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah.. i would keep your mouth shut because she must not "love" you like the way you love her.. because if she did then she would be married to you .. not her HUSBAND
2006-07-15 21:03:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. otherwise it would be very selfish, I think. is she happy? does she love her husband? if so, you shouldn't confuse her and put her into that awkward position. it might change your friendship. maybe even break up th friendship. what if she tells her husband? could you ever hang out with her again? spend time with her aone or with her husband?
you should try to look for someone else, someone who is available and not married. it would be sad if you were the cause for a divorce, don't you think? if you guys end up together or not...sometimes it takes less than that (jealousy etc.) to break a marriage up.
I agree with otis, if you truly care for her, let hr go on and be happy with her choice.
2006-07-15 21:04:12 · answer #6 · answered by sarea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT!!!!! this'll only put strain on his/her marrige + your relationship. if you cherish your relationship with them, dont tell them. maybe the feelings for the other person will go away, and you will just be friends.
2006-07-15 21:01:00 · answer #7 · answered by jeny n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does hurt, but if you do not want to ruine a family that she already has build than you should not say a thing....bUt have you ever heard the s@ying n3v3r s@y n3v3r...Buona Fortuna..ciao
2006-07-15 21:01:57 · answer #8 · answered by Lesley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, and then superglue your lips shut because if they are married you have a rats chance in hell of hooking up except for a booty call.
2006-07-15 21:00:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. She doesn't need to to know about it. It will only cause problems, and if she's your best friend, you wouldn't want to do that.
2006-07-15 21:00:21 · answer #10 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋