he keeps on grabbing my hsnd and holdig it when ever he sits by me we are soooo close i like him i dont know if he likes meshould i even ask him out? we are good friends & if he says no then our friendship would b ruind. HELP PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-15 12:50:45 · 11 answers · asked by Hayley L. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's grabbing your hand for crying out loud. I don't know anyone who are friends and keep grabbing each toher. I think it's a sign. Go for it. If you really are good friends you'd never split up over something like this:)
2006-07-15 12:54:39 · answer #1 · answered by Jim2386 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASK. you never regret the things you do in life as much as you regret the things you don't. It sounds to me that he likes you and is probably pretty shy about it. Here is a suggestion...(I am assuming you are a teen?) Tell him you are so glad you two are friends and give him a kiss on the cheek. Lean into him and then just linger and stare into his eyes. He'll do the rest. Good luck!! Oh...and if he says "no" (trust me he won't) but if he does...just laugh it off and say...yeah, I guess we are better at being friends anyway!
2006-07-15 19:57:18 · answer #2 · answered by Pepsi_Frog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should tell him that you like him and yes, you can ask him out if you want. Heres a suggestion. Ask him if he wants to go to mcdonalds and if he does, sit in as private a booth as you can and tell him flat out that you would like to be more than friends. Then tell him that you want to date for a while before you have sex. If he's a true friend then he'll either say cool or he'll ask if you two can just remain friends. If not, then youve only lost a false friend and gained some wisdom and confidence.
2006-07-15 19:58:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
alright...i'm not shy at all (not braggin!) so i've been in this situation a zillion times, and i don't know if my answer would help, but it works for me!
I think he likes you. So here's what you should say. Be casual about it, even a little humorous, just say something like, "Hey, dude, kinda seems like you like me, so I'm just wonderin if you'd like to go to the movies/dinner/something else." Or just a simple, "I'd like to go out with you. Do you wanna go out with me?" If he says no, you may be quite a bit upset, but keep your cool and say, "Hey, whoa, sorry, I had the impression that you liked me. I read you wrong. Can we still be friends?" And if he says no, than you SHOULDN'T be friends.
2006-07-15 19:56:36 · answer #4 · answered by Confuzed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He keeps grabbing your hand and holding it! Girl, that's a sure sign he's interested in you. Ask him now! Get off the computer and give him a call!
2006-07-15 19:56:06 · answer #5 · answered by klunk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a shot. If he is such a close friend, then why would he ditch you so fast if the answer is no. And if the answer is yes, then, well, your good to go. A good friend wouldn't ditch you like that. It would just be kinda akward.
2006-07-15 19:56:15 · answer #6 · answered by thephalkinparadox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should first try doing a double date go to pizza with your friend and her boyfriend and invite this guy to go with you. If he likes you then maybe he will give you another sign. But it sounds to me like he likes you...if he is always holding your hand then he does like you. But you should try a double date just to b sure. Don't push yourself. Try to give him some hints..get a friend to talk to his friends and see if he likes you. These are some advices that might work..sorry if they don't.
2006-07-15 19:56:14 · answer #7 · answered by TheHillsLover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask him out! Life is about adventures and new experiences. He may be too shy to ask you out. If you don't ask him out you may never know, so why not go for it? The worst thing he could say is no.
2006-07-15 19:54:50 · answer #8 · answered by JT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
playfully look him in the eye when he grabs your hand and say so when you gonna take me out.if response isnt good laugh and say just kidding.
2006-07-15 19:54:19 · answer #9 · answered by sassy1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't ask just go, maybe you should be spontaneous and take him out. dont ask just say go with me and go out on a date i bet he'll like that then let it go from there.
2006-07-15 20:09:16 · answer #10 · answered by roxi baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋