2006-07-15 12:30:01 · 12 answers · asked by qtairforcebrat22 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe because of a contoling and abusive past. People who strive to control have been made to feel powerless in thier youth, or lost control in a situation. (rape) Feeding it, or allowing it never helps. never let someone elses 'issues' make you compromise your owm beliefs.
2006-07-15 12:38:33 · answer #1 · answered by NIGHTSHADE 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I just dated this incredible girl and we had nothing but an awesome time together. She used to date this guy (who was also her first bf) who was controlling and verbally abusive. They broke up about 3-4 times over. Everytime they broke up he said he was sorry and that things would be different this time, and gave her the "wounded dog" look. Of course it was all bs. Now she's friends with him again and we've broken up. And although I know she knows deep down inside it's a bad idea she's doing it anyway.
The point is, not all guys are bad. So when you come to be with a guy who actually treats you like a girl should be, don't blow him off or give him up.
2006-07-15 19:44:27 · answer #2 · answered by Jon J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot Of Males are Raised Not To Put Up With Any Bull,Its Yes Sir And No Sir,Thank You Very Much
2006-07-15 19:35:53 · answer #3 · answered by dogsx11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they r not all like that and my advise is get out of there before u get hurt as i did leave his a$$ and quick dont wait around playin the guessin game cause the chances of him changein r slim to none get out quick
2006-07-15 19:35:00 · answer #4 · answered by lollipop 101 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you mean why is YOUR bf so controlling and abusive
2006-07-15 19:34:51 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youre hanging with the wrong people... get out of that now before you get hurt or soemthing...
2006-07-15 19:35:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are looking in the wrong places try something new. and kick the bad guys *** to the ground.
2006-07-15 19:57:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
them are not b/f there control freaks , b/f are nice to you and injoy your company . you need lose that fool
2006-07-15 19:34:40 · answer #8 · answered by wilco254 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only because you allow it - Freud would say it is because you want it.
2006-07-15 19:36:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're not all like that =S
2006-07-15 19:34:18 · answer #10 · answered by Chii666 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋