There are two guys in my life that I like, both are totally sweet, honest gentlemen, but one never has time for me because he always is doing stuff for or with his parents and the other, I can never get ahold of because he's always out doing other things with his friends. I don't care if they have other women in their lives. I honestly don't care, but I'm not letting go of both of them. It's either one or the other. I had the first one over at my house today and he helped me babysit for an hour and I just absoulutly love spending time with him, but last weekend, while he was in Canada, I went to the pool with the second one and had a kickass time, but I haven't talked to him since then. Which one do I choose? Ten easy points to the person who gives me an answer and can send some sort of back up to why they answered that!!
2006-07-15 11:58:14 · 7 answers · asked by phoenix_chicka 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The first guy will be there for you, and you can count on that. He may not have alot of time for you right now but if you guys date Im sure he will make time. The second guy sounds cool, and since he hangs out with his friends alot maybe you could try to go with him (if it works out you can date him and have a new core group of friends). If he isn't open to having you hang out with him (and his friends) then don't bother and go with the first guy.
To be honest Im leaning more toward the first guy anyway. He sounds like a better time. Either way just have fun!
2006-07-15 12:09:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 9⤊ 1⤋
ok ill try to answer the best as i can. 1 st if the guy who spends time with his parents etc...is always with them and dont have time for you kick him to the ground i mean do you realy want a guy whos going to hide under his mums apron and judge you with her. i think not cause your asking for a long hard commitment. so i would go for the guy who you had the more fun with. as you say a kick *** time with. i know you say hes hard to get hold of but if you have 2 guys in your life your time is took up by the 2 of them. so if you stay friends with one and go out with the other. then the kick *** guy will have more time for you. good luck.
2006-07-15 19:04:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've heard that you can tell how a person will treat a spouse by watching how s/he treats his/her own family. I'd stay with the babysitter, because once he recognizes you as part of the family, he'll treat you well.
The other guy sounds like he relates better with his guy friends than with the opposite sex.
2006-07-15 19:09:14 · answer #3 · answered by Nosy Parker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first one. he was the one that stayed and babysitted with you. would the other guy do that. you had fun with the first guy just talking where you were at a pool with man number 2, which is fun anyway.
2006-07-15 19:02:51 · answer #4 · answered by lan f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant date two people at the same time ...
since the first one doesnt have time for you and the second ones equally sweet ... go out with the second one!
2006-07-15 19:04:41 · answer #5 · answered by Honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one can answer that , only you. sit down n think........ cool yourself down.......... which one do u like deeply or when ever u r alone, which guy came into ur mind 1st, the 1st or 2nd guy? take your time to decide, just follow your feel......... your feeling is the best answer to your question......... all the best to you...... =)
2006-07-15 19:12:05 · answer #6 · answered by Andy Heckmen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're young (I'm assuming!) Why not keep them both until one of them screws up?
2006-07-15 19:06:20 · answer #7 · answered by moonstone150 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋