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I sure don't. If I have an interest in anything besides school they try to squash it out of me. Even in the summer.

2006-07-15 11:55:47 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Family

46 answers

kinda, there dumb

2006-07-15 11:57:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

I do.
I also had problems like any others here when I was young. And I sometimes were rather upset what they expect me to do - or not to do.
Your question is not asked clear enough.
It also depends on your age. Imagine that your parents just want you to be alright. Just think about how you would react as a parent in the same situation.
Discuss problems in a fair way and try to find out WHY they are like this.

2006-07-15 12:07:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I used to feel the same way. Now, I'm really close to my mom. I haven't seen my dad for 4 years now, but everything happens for a reason. It may seem like they're being @ssholes, but they care about you, otherwise they wouldn't be so strict. What you also have to understand is that parents have a way of inflicting things on their children that they never accomplished themselves. Prove to them that you believe school is important too, and the other things will fall into place.

2006-07-15 11:59:04 · answer #3 · answered by Becky Jo 4 · 0 0

I love my parents, they are the best. I have even moved back home now to take care of them. I want to spend as much time with them as I can while I still have them with me. I have nothing but respect for my parents. And that was even when I was growing up and living at home. I had and have nothing but respect for them. They are the only ones that I have got and I want to cherish every minute I have left with them.

I know when I was growing up, I thought they were tough and mean, but as time went on I learned it was only because they loved and cared about me. Even though I didn't like it back then, I still had respect for them.

2006-07-15 13:05:04 · answer #4 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0 0

I am 29 years old and my mom is one of my best friends. She always has been & always will be. I talk to her almost everyday & live less than 10 min away. We've become even closer since I had my son 2.5 years ago. I know understand what she went through when we were children & I respect that.

You only get one set of parents, even if you don't always agree, they'll always love you!

2006-07-15 12:20:26 · answer #5 · answered by njyecats 6 · 0 0

You will in 15 years.

2006-07-15 11:59:56 · answer #6 · answered by Craig 3 · 0 0

hi you know when I was your age I didn't like my parents either. but you know what you might have never been brought into this world if it weren't for them. and where would you be if they hadn't taken care of you until now? if they hadn't loved you and cared for you? Where would you have been or better yet how would you have been. when i was young I didn't like what my parents were telling me but you know what all that my mother said was true. I found out the hard way. she really cares about you. So think about what you are saying. And appreciate them for they aren't going to be around forever and who comes to your rescue when you need something? your parents are the first to come rescue you! So think about it! sincerely,Penny

2006-07-15 12:02:45 · answer #7 · answered by Penny 1 · 0 0

Yes, but they drive me crazy! I love them and I know they love me and are trying to do whats best for me but they still treat me like im in Elementary School. What are they going to do when I go off to college? I feel like they can treat me one way, but if I do the same thing ill get in SO much trouble because 'their the parents'. Its ok though. I think this happens to everyone the older they get. I think ill like them better in 2 years when im gone, ill actually get a chance to miss them.

2006-07-15 12:02:41 · answer #8 · answered by A* 4 · 0 0

I hatet my mother when I grew up, because she literally beat me through school. There was no way I could get a break. But, I have to say in hindsight that I am grateful now. I wanted to drop out of school and she beat the **** out of me. I do have a masters now, and would it not have been for her I probably would have ended up in some low paid job.

Maybe your parents are as strict as my mother was, but believe me this: they know what world there is out there, they want you not to have to work as hard as they do by getting a good education for you----I know that sounds just like your grandmother's advice, but it is the truth.

Maybe you can get your parents to sit down with you and work out an agreement where your parents get what they want(that you do your schooling)and where you can get something in exchange for doing that(some fun). Try to explain to them that you would like to be able to go out with your friends/play ball/hang out with them/basically whatever you want in exchange for doing your part. Maybe they will listen to you and agree with you on that. Once you worked out an agreement with your parents you have to stick to that too. If your dad for example tells you that he wants to see only a's and b's, explain your dad what subjects are the toughtest for you and negotiate rather than telling him that you can't do it. And then give it your best. If you have to do homework, try to manage that time. Time management is something you can learn by making you a plan. You prioritize with your homework and 1 hour study---and when that is finished you go about chores you are responsible for. Your parents will cut you a lot more slack if you show them earnestly that you are about doing what they tell you to do and about doing your schooling. Give it a try and see for yourself....Good Luck

2006-07-15 12:07:12 · answer #9 · answered by MARIANNE G 4 · 0 0

Nope I don't care what ever happens to them I never knew my father and my mother abandon me when I was 6 years old. Good thing too cause I might of had grown up to be just as big of an assholes as them.

2006-07-15 12:05:06 · answer #10 · answered by James 4 · 0 0

When you're young, every child hates their parents at a certain point and time. You don't really hate them (you don't like them very much at the moment). When one gets older and moves away from home, we miss our parents, mom's cooking, and all sorts of stuff. When you're young hate. When you grew and leave, you wanna go back home.

2006-07-15 12:02:46 · answer #11 · answered by Zeta 5 · 0 0

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