I'm 14 years olds and am going into the 9th grade. i've had boyfriends b4, but my parents never knew about them. i really want to have a boyfriend that my parents will know about, so then we wont haft to sneak around. i've asked them about having a boyfriend b4, but they always said i had to wait until i am 16. but thats not gonna work. how can i talk my parents into letting me have a boyfriend? Please help!
2006-07-15 11:52:38 · 4 answers · asked by P.Adaire 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your parents are smart to make you wait. Listen to them. You have plenty of time to get your heart broken, why rush?
2006-07-15 11:59:35 · answer #1 · answered by e_imommy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best thing is honesty, tell them that you don't want to have to sneak behind there backs just to have a boyfriend. You can also recommend that you can only see your boyfriend outside of the home if you go on group dates, or he has to come to your house. If you are honest with your parents about having boyfriends in the past it will show that you have some maturity and it will also show that you want an honest relationship with them. However you are 14 years old and I know that your friends are probably in relationships but just remember that all men are pigs and don't fall for any of their lines like "if you really loved me you would".
2006-07-15 12:06:15 · answer #2 · answered by julie0579 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your parents. I know you don't believe it but 14 is too young. Wait until 16 which is not far away.
2006-07-15 12:00:01 · answer #3 · answered by Randy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just listen to your parents. 16 is a good age, you'd be a little more mature and not so naive. just entering high school, the older guys are gonna be after u. but you should just hold out until 16, dating in high school isnt all its cracked up to be. trust me
2006-07-15 12:01:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋