me and my girlfriend broke up a month ago and we are still good friends. recently we both said we like each other a little bit and one day this week, she came over and we basically did the stuff we did when we went out. it seemed as if we were on our way to go back out. later that night, she said that we can't do that stuff anymore because we don't go out. It's basically because we both are gonna talk to other people. I already know she talks to a lot of guys. It's hard to deal with her talking to my best friend all the time. I dont know, it's just hard for me to like her when she talks to so many other guys. i just don't what i should do considering we talk all the time, but i know she's doing the same things with other guys including one of my best friends. and i kno if they did become more than friends i would mad, but this is just something for me to get over.
2006-07-15 11:51:07 · 3 answers · asked by farside234 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So I am no expert but I have had some time away from dating to think about stuff like this, and my thoughts about your problem are you should find someone else if you want a girl. This female you speak of doesn't seem to know what she wants and will continue to string you along for as long as you let her. About her seeing your friend I really don't know what to say even if all of you remain friends it will still be weird. Example my first and only love started seeing this girl I knew we weren't friends but just me knowing her and knowing that she knew we was together made me mad at both of them.Ok ready for my answer.......do what I did give yourself a break from dating think of other things and time is the key for stuff like this or you can talk to me whenever you feel down my profile is open to public messeage me whenever you'd like.
2006-07-15 12:14:23 · answer #1 · answered by sarah8here 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right, don't be a masochist (sufferer). Go out and find other people to socialize with, ask other women on dates and make it seem as if you are having a good time, don't let her know that you are really hurt, this will let her know that you can take care of yourself and that you will survive this. Going back and doing the same things you were doing while you were dating is just pouring salt in the wound again, you need to cut it off and move on the best that you can. If you are having troubles about it, talk with someone you can confind in and keep it low key.
2006-07-15 19:11:54 · answer #2 · answered by deepthinker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should try to think of her more as a friend and maybe try to start moving on and talk to some more girls!
2006-07-15 18:55:43 · answer #3 · answered by taytay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋