my dog is getting old and might pass away soon i am going to be so sad what should i do?

Answer 1

Now that you know in advance, then you should better prepare yourself for the loss. No matter how much it may hurt, you must move on. You might or might not want to get another dog immediately for companionship, but whatever you do, keep strong.
If ever your dog dies {God forbid}, then accept my condolences!

Answer 2

Losing a life long pet is always a difficult experience to go through. Keep your pet alive through your memories of him or her. Keep pictures of your pet in a special photo album just for your special friend. It is okay to cry and miss your pet. I know I cried a lot when my pets got old and passed away.

Some people find it comforting to get a new puppy. But I wouldn't do that just yet if I were you. You must have time to mourn or grieve for your pet first. When the time is right and when you are ready, you can then get a new puppy or a new pet. Timing is the key here. You want to get a new pet when you know you are ready completely to love and care for him or her again.

Perhaps by talking to other people that has lost a pet could help you out. Contact your local vet's office and ask if there is any support groups you could go to, to help you deal with your emotions of losing a life long friend.

Answer 3

At least you understand and realize this- My 12 year old chihuahua died this past February. It was a complete SHOCK to me. I was heartbroken. After a little over a month, I bought another chihuahua (I believe this was the best decision I could have made) She has made me very happy again, and even though I miss my dog that passed, Lacey brings back alot of the joy that was lost. I'm really glad that you understand the reality of things ( I wish I would have)- and I hope you can find another dog that will bring you as much joy as this one does now. Good luck on the future ! :)

Answer 4

I truly understand how you feel. The feeling of something you love so much dessipering is the worst kind of feeling. I am sorry. But, spend all the time you can with him or her, and cherish it. Don't take it for granted. Love her or him like you never did before, and do little stuff for it. Or, you can get a new puppy, while your dog is still living. Let your dog know that you'll still love him over the puppy though! sometimes they get jealous. Just, rember all the happy times you had with him and chersih the time you have left.
good luck and hope this helped!

Answer 5

This is a really GOOD question.
You will be VERY sad when your old pet dies, but remember that if you didn't HAVE him, you would never have had a chance to LOVE him either.

My answer to it is to get another puppy BEFORE the older one passes away on you. The transition is easier on you AND the older dog; --- don't kid yourself, your faithful old pet knows he's leaving you and will be much happier knowing you have the puppy.

Answer 6

If your dog is suffering it will be easier to let go. To know that he-she is in a better place. Dogs are a lot like us , we become attached to them . Just love you dog and spend as much time with her-him as you can . Don't dwell on them not being there anymore with you. Soon after they are gone your heart will heal it may take some time , but you will be okay.My thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time.

Answer 7

heres an article i found aboit grieving your pets it says cats but same for dogs



Grieving Your Friend

Remember the good times.

Undoubtably, your house will feel empty without your cat. You may find yourself absent-mindedly walking into the bedroom searching for her. And of course, her catnip toys are still on the couch. The point is, it's okay for you to feel sad. She was an important part of your life for years and years. But eventually, you will need to focus on your good memories, and start the healing process. Here are a few things you can do:

1. Take time to grieve. Share your feelings with your friends and family. If it helps, write your feelings down on paper. Make a scrapbook. Acknowledge the death, but try to focus on how your cat enhanced your life. And how you, in turn, made your cat's life more than happy. And remember, grieving takes time. That's OK.

2. Hold a memorial ceremony for your cat. You might place a framed picture, or your cat's collar in an honored place in your house. Bring your family or friends together so everyone can reminisce about their favorite memories of your cat. Send a memorial photo of your cat to people who shared her life. You can make a donation to the local pet shelter or animal hospital in your cat's name. Or you could even plant a tree or a perennial flower, as a living tribute to your cat.

3. Help your children deal with their loss. Encourage them to ask questions and show their emotions. Depending on their age, you can help them understand the concept of death, and assure them that you aren't leaving. There are several children's books available that help them deal with the loss of their companion. If possible, let them contribute to the memorial. For instance, they could draw a picture or card that can be buried with your cat.

4. Try not to make yourself feel guilty. You can fill your mind with all the "what if I had done…" questions, but just remember, you did what you thought was best. It's also okay to be relieved that a difficult time has come to an end - no one likes to watch a loved one suffer. Instead, focus on the good times you had together, and know in your heart that your cat felt very loved.

5. If you're having trouble being in your home without constant reminders your cat, rearrange the furniture and change your schedule. Those small changes can help that lump in your throat disappear a little faster.

6. Although your friends may pressure you to bring another cat into your home, don't do it until the time feels right. Just remember, you're not replacing your cat, and you're certainly not being disloyal. But sometimes, the love and affection of another pet helps soften the pain of your loss.

Still, you should be prepared for it to take weeks, or months, or even years, but eventually, the pain will fade. And you will be left with warm memories, and a feeling of gratitude for the cat who brought so much to your life.

Answer 8

Well if is very sad when u loose a loved pet. My mom ran over my favorite cat and I was very sad. U just have to remember that everything does die. I know it is sad. All u can do is make his or hers last days the best it has ever had.

Answer 9

It's not an easy thing losing a pet. They're part of your family. Unfortunately, you have to allow yourself to mourn your pet as you'd mourn a member of your family. If it's any consolation, time heals the wound, as they say, and as time passes, you may want to get another little dog to love.

Answer 10

I was in a similar situation with my Schnauzer...she wasn't dying from old age but from kidney disease. Anyway, I had a professional photo taken of her and it hangs in my hallway. I love that photo and will treasure it always. I hope your dog is in good enough shape for you to do this. Then, in time, you may feel like getting a puppy or a rescue dog.
You can't replace your loved dog, but you can learn to love another one...believe me, it's EASY...I've done it THREE times.
Good luck and God bless!