When ever I hang out with my friends, I always end up paying. They say since your daddy is rich why the he ll not? But are my friends just using me?
2006-07-15 10:38:30 · 47 answers · asked by SAM 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yea, they aren't 'friends' if they make you pay all the time. I think it's time you get some new friends.
2006-07-15 13:06:55 · answer #1 · answered by Heather 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Yes, they probably are, stop paying!!!! Tell them your Daddy my be rich, but you aren't. You'll find out who your real friends really are, and if they are just using you,
you don't need them anyway. Good Luck!!!!
2006-07-15 10:44:15 · answer #2 · answered by frustrated 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think they shouldn't, you should point it out to them that you're not their credit card. Don't pay for them, the more lenient you are, the more advantage they take of you. I think it's time for you to rise and shine and stand out. Point it out, people who make you pay aren't good friends especially when they're just friends. If a boyfriend, I would understand but the boyfriend should pay either way. Let's so Sam, show them what you're made of. You're not a credit card, you're human.
2006-07-15 10:41:13 · answer #3 · answered by krazych1nky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that they are using you, it is easy. Pay only your part. It is a democratic attitude when each one agree to divide the bill. But if you always pay all parts it is because you can and you want to do. So never mind if they are or not using you... go on paying... Otherwise, talk to they freely and say: from now on I will respond only for my part.
2006-07-15 10:48:36 · answer #4 · answered by vahucel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there were really your friends they would not ask you to pay all the time. I don't care if you were a princes. And I really think that they are. Stop paying for their meals and you will soon find out what kind of friends you truly have.
2006-07-15 10:43:29 · answer #5 · answered by Twilight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, you are a very stupid person. Sorry to be the one to tell you this but really, I'm sure you have heard it many times. Maybe if you would douche now and then, the flies would leave you alone and someone could get close enough to you to tell you you need mouthwash. Now, send me some money for this advise.
2006-07-15 10:49:20 · answer #6 · answered by m-t-nest 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. If they always want you to pay for things then yeah. think about getting some new friends to hang to with.
2006-07-15 10:45:19 · answer #7 · answered by hotgirl2004_54 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether or not you are being used is a matter of opinion that only you can decide. What do you get in exchange for your bank-rolling nights out? Do your friends offer you love, support, encouragement, etc.? Is it enough to make spending money on them worth it?
2006-07-15 10:42:54 · answer #8 · answered by du_robot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, they are using you they don't realy care for you all they care about is your money. Try finding that out, maybe tell them that you dad does not give any money because you are not saving, insted he is saving it for you future, or ask you dad to help you.
bring them to your house and do something that will make stop given you money for a week the person who will be there during that week might be a good friend. let me know what happen.
good luke.
2006-07-15 11:20:12 · answer #9 · answered by nansaywon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of couse they're jus using you! cuz no matter how much money i have i dont let people pay for me cuz them they turn around be like u owe me and use it against you. but i anywayz it depends on how they treat u when ur not at the store. do they still hang wit u? well i think u should not pay for once and see how they react. and thats fa sho
2006-07-15 10:42:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, every person must pay equal.
You haven't money,if you don't work.
The money of your daddy isn't yours now.
They will be yours when you will succeed,until that you must work something ,you must learn to feel the real life.
2006-07-15 21:16:49 · answer #11 · answered by mirna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋