me n my ex are both 17 n we went out for 5 months but thn I broke up with him because his parents were makin our lives hell ( long story), but he didnt give up and wanted me back! we got together again thn we had to break up over thm again! I dumped him about three times because of parents but all three times he did not give up and wanted 2 get bk wiv me and told people he loved me etc. thn as we started gettin closer i found out by him that he had sex with his ex (wen he was with her b4 me) but i was upset cause wen he was with me he never told me. I stopped tlkin to him but he told me that he didnt tell me cause he thought he would lose me if he told me that in the past (wen we were not yet together) he had it wiv her (cause she is known as a **** in skl anyway) he said he didnt want to hurt me. Now we havent spoken 4 2 months but he called 2 c how i was n txtd me "gdnite cutie and plz dont hold wat i did against me for as long as we live". do you think he realli cares for me? thnx
2006-07-15 10:25:11 · 16 answers · asked by Fabiana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
uh... seems lyk yes.. i think u should look past hiz rents' n go 4 him... he seems to lyk u mor than hiz parents cuz hez goin' 4 u even though hiz parents dont really approve... so gurl dont let him slip... GoOd LuCk!!!!!!!!
2006-07-15 10:28:24 · answer #1 · answered by Taru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he cares about you, he didn't want you to get the wrong idea about him sleeping with the local bike that's why he never told you.
If he's gone against his parents wishes three times I think he's very keen on you and you should at least talk. Let him explain in person how he feels and from that you'll be able to decide what you want to do, either get back with him or move on.
Good luck, sweetie...x
2006-07-15 19:17:58 · answer #2 · answered by Sweetcakes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please don't look into to his past and judge him, he wasn't with you at the time he had sex with his ex so he didn't cheat on you. he obviously cares about you if he keeps trying. his ex is a **** as you've said and its obvious he's dumped her coz she ain't good for him but you are. if you wanted to know about it you should have asked him or wait till he felt comfortable with telling you.
i think his parents are just trying to protect their son but sooner or later they'll have to let him go a little and you sound like a great person and maybe one day they will realise that.
don't be silly and talk to him, he does care for you should know you better pick up the phone and give him a call or send a text and have a chat!!
2006-07-15 17:47:39 · answer #3 · answered by bluestar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he cares for you. Most guys would just move on and find someone else. Talk to him if you are still interested in him. And as far as him not telling you what he did in his past, well, it was the past. Just remember he kept something from you for future reference, but it was before you got together. His past is his business, as is yours. Maybe he was ashamed that he'd been with her.
2006-07-15 17:32:09 · answer #4 · answered by shynomore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're only 17, get over him!! You're still a child. I find it hard to believe you can truly love someone after only 5 months, that's hardly any amount of time. Delete his phone number, ignore any texts and get on with your life!!
2006-07-15 17:31:36 · answer #5 · answered by littlebethan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he does care and love you,he would not have told you about the ex, jus think about how much you 2 want to be together dont let the parent get to you, if you really want to be together jus let them talk about, my parents didn't want me to be with my ex boyfriend because of the things he had done in the pasrted but i didn't let them get me down and i was with him for 4 years but then thinks went wrong and we spilt up. but jus think to yourself do you want to really be with him and if he treats you the right way you want to be treated, give it a go and see what happens
good luck hun!!!!
2006-07-16 10:16:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wanted to answer this seriously, I really did, but then I saw that endless piece of text and I just sort of gave up.
Sorry.
2006-07-15 17:31:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes called your ex for a reason hunny. Move on.
2006-07-15 18:45:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course he does, why else would he be texting you, or cared so much for you to tell you what he did, both his secrecy and to tell you the truth, plus do not keep on braking and dating, theres so much pain a guy can stand, especially if he cares so much for you.
2006-07-15 17:33:35 · answer #9 · answered by electricbluerocker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ARGHHHHHHHHHHHHH , you're 17 ... why are you talking like a 5yr old .
You will spend the rest of life being a victim.
2006-07-15 17:31:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋