me n my ex are both 17 n we went out for 5 months but thn I broke up with him because his parents were makin our lives hell ( long story), but he didnt give up and wanted me back! we got together again thn we had to break up over thm again! I dumped him about three times because of parents but all three times he did not give up and wanted 2 get bk wiv me and told people he loved me etc. thn as we started gettin closer i found out by him that he had sex with his ex (wen he was with her b4 me) but i was upset cause wen he was with me he never told me. I stopped tlkin to him but he told me that he didnt tell me cause he thought he would lose me if he told me that in the past (wen we were not yet together) he had it wiv her (cause she is known as a **** in skl anyway) he said he didnt want to hurt me. Now we havent spoken 4 2 months but he called 2 c how i was n txtd me "gdnite cutie and plz dont hold wat i did against me for as long as we live". do you think he realli cares for me? thnx
2006-07-15 10:23:41 · 17 answers · asked by Fabiana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no
2006-07-15 11:09:35 · answer #1 · answered by Aissata 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow........after what he has done and the parents continually breaking you two up. I think the question is do you love him enough to go through all this. Your very young to have such chaos in your life month after month. Haven't you tried to date anyone else, and I mean just date you don't need to bed down with anyone. Save that for marriage. Try and get yourself off this roller coaster, maybe think about him when he is old enough to cut the apron string and grow up himself .
2006-07-15 17:33:52 · answer #2 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd like to buy a vowel....
You've put this guy through hell and he still thinks you're worth his time. He came back to you after parent crap (which I'm sure was at least as bad for him as it was for you) repeatedly, and he cared enough to want to be honest with you and open when you started over. My guess is he really cares for you. Or he's a masochist.
2006-07-15 17:31:12 · answer #3 · answered by perseph1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he does care about you. You two were already broken up when he slept with her and there wasn't any real reason to tell you because it was legitimate.
I understand what you mean by annoying parents. My ex's family HATED me and would always say rude things about me to him in front of my face. His grandma would tell me to my face that I don't belong there or tell him to tell me that.
That relationship didn't last because he turned into a psychopath. If you really like this guy, don't let his family get to you. You're dating him, not his stupid family.
2006-07-15 17:28:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't hold his past sexual history against him. It was done before you two got together, and being mad at him isn't going to change the fact that it was done.
Don't hold it against him, and try to work things out, even if his parents are trying to get in between you two.
If you can't work that out, then how do you expect to work out any other future obstacles?
2006-07-15 17:27:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes sounds just like all guys at that age. cuz im around the same age but just get use to it . i think you should 4 get about him cuz you need to be happy not stressed over that moron. girl you need a guy whos different. Try samething else like make a guy want you that! make him go crazy not to crazy !!! be cool but when a cute guy talks to you just be yourself . If you see that he wants samething than just be hard to get not easy. If easy he will get what he want not you him it all bout him so yeah
2006-07-15 17:40:33 · answer #6 · answered by letty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he does
from what ive read i would say that he is telling to truth, he cares for you and wants you back,
i have had a similar problem and im still with my gf, because i was straight with her and she knew it,
so i would say, yes he cares, but you should ask him to tell you everything ike that he may or may not have done, and dont get upset at what he says, because it is hard to tell things like that when you upset the person your telling them too
2006-07-15 18:53:33 · answer #7 · answered by dynasty_general 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, he cares. Maybe not as much as you did, but sooner or later, you'll realize that sometimes, sex is just sex. It only means something if both of you want it to.
2006-07-15 17:28:13 · answer #8 · answered by n0love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is that important to you and why do you care about his past sexual contacts? Is that really matter?????????????? He did that with his ex before you were going out so there is no problem......... Talk to his parents and tell them to back off............ and yes he likes you and if you still like him you should go out with him.
2006-07-15 17:38:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off,you're kids,you got a lot of experienceing to do.yes,he cares otherwise he wouldnt call you or text u at all.he didnt cheat on you,who cares if he slept with 1000 women beofore you?does it matter if he wants you and u only?get a grip on yourself
2006-07-15 17:30:21 · answer #10 · answered by wizard1183 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on.The good thing about dating is you can learn from your mistakes before you have kids.If his folks dont like you now what makes you think it will get better.When you are dating and EVERYTHING looks good then you get married.
2006-07-15 17:31:11 · answer #11 · answered by Thomas H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋