I am no virgin and almost anyone can tell you that. But should I have waited for Mr. Right?
2006-07-15 10:17:36 · 23 answers · asked by lucy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's too late for that now. But If you really trusted the men you were with, no you shouldn't have waited. Enjoying your body is part of life. Don't make such a big fuss over it.
2006-07-15 14:22:16 · answer #1 · answered by Heather 3 · 2⤊ 3⤋
There are many differnt "camps" on this one.
Some think people should stay a virgin until they're married.
Some want to wait for Mr. Right
Some wait for a certain age.
Personally, I think that your first time should be with a friend rather than with someone you love. Most people agree that the "first" time isn't magical. There's lots of tension, some fear, etc. And if there's a medical problem (thickened hymen, etc) then it can be very painful, and memories of that can ruin a relationship. If your first time is with a friend, then there's no pressure to "preform" for the sake of the relationship, so you can say stop at any time. There's no expectation of love, so attention can be focused on making it as painless as possable. There's no fear of "ruining" the relationship if it is painful. And since it's just the one time, there's no memory of the pain associated with that person the next time.
2006-07-15 17:39:30 · answer #2 · answered by cmriley1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the respectful thing for a woman to do; but if you are an adult and a woman you have needs too. Why should you wait for Mr. Right. This to me is an old wives tale. I doubt that he waits for you. Men may tell you they prefer a virgin but they are human like we are.
2006-07-15 17:26:29 · answer #3 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, admitting that almost anyone can tell us that you are not a virgin is just... wrong. It's not just wrong, it is sad. You are pretty much calling yourself a sl*t puppy! You definitely should have waited until you were married!
2006-07-15 17:21:36 · answer #4 · answered by flyingbumblebee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you liked the guy that you slept with the first time and it felt right before you let him enter you than why wait for mr.right. Hell most women look for mr. right now.
2006-07-15 17:21:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you did it when you were ready then you are fine. there is no real way to tell if a guy is mr.right. you could be 40 years old before you find mr. right to give your virginity to
2006-07-15 17:29:24 · answer #6 · answered by Niecy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, of course not, you don't have to wait to Mr. Right, let him come to you, but until them, enjoy your live!
2006-07-15 17:25:31 · answer #7 · answered by Danny B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wasn't a virgin when i met my mr perfect and now we have been together for like almost twelve years
2006-07-15 17:20:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would you know he's mr right if you didn't have anything to compare him to? I think I would prefer someone experienced, someone inexperienced might not actually know what they are looking for and get curious about it later.
2006-07-15 17:20:26 · answer #9 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you have questions. Mr. Right will bring no doubts!
2006-07-15 17:21:23 · answer #10 · answered by OU812 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋