MY CURRENT BOYFREIND AND I HAD A TALK ABOUT ORAL SEX..IM CURRENTLY A VIRGIN AND WOULD LIKE TO STAY THAT WAY...BUT MY BOYFREIND ON THE OTHER HAND THINKS DIFFENTLY...HE RESPECTS THE FACT THAT I WONT TO STAY A VIRGIN....BUT AT LEAST WOULD LIKE ORAL SEX... I THINK THAT ITS NASTY AND ITS SOMETHING I HONESTLY STAND AGAINST. MY BOYFREIND ALWAYS PLEASES ME I WONT RETURN THE FAVOR WHAT SHOULD I DO....REMEMBER THIS IS SOMETHING I STAND AGAINST...
2006-07-15 10:11:19 · 21 answers · asked by yates1stlady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should make him feel good too. everybody needs to feel satisfied in that way. hes great for still being around and respecting your decision but you wont lose your virginity for just oral sex. Once you do it, you wont feel so uncomfortable about it. Give it a couple of tries. He makes you feel good and you gotta like what he does to you so why not make him feel good too? It feels good to be able to give your boyfriend pleasure like that and see him enjoy what you do for him. he would appreciate you. you should do oral, you already know hes not in it for the sex because of him still being with you.
2006-07-15 10:21:28 · answer #1 · answered by Ari 1 · 7⤊ 7⤋
Sounds like you really did not need to ask this question. If premarital sex is the issue then deal according your beliefs, religious or otherwise. Oral sex is NOT nasty, it is part of a person's natural sexuality. There will be a time when you will wish to receive it and will be expected to perform it. I do know that I would not be committed to any relationship which did not include the whole range of sexual pleasures. If its no premarital sex then that includes oral as well. Good luck finding the guy who will marry without the test drive. I know I'm not one of those guys.
2006-07-15 17:22:42 · answer #2 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, I feel that giving oral sex to my boyfriend would be an act of love because I want to make him feel good. I haven't done anything with my boyfriend or with anybody, but when we're ready I'd be happy to do it for my boyfriend. Maybe you could try it? It sounds like he just wants you to reciprocate because he's making you feel good. If not oral, you could give him a handjob and make him feel better that way.
2006-07-15 17:15:22 · answer #3 · answered by Breakdancer Girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oral sex is still sex. take it from someone married for 26 years. If you want to stay a virgin ,stay a virgin and don't give in. your only a virgin as long as you want to be.If he respects you he'll understand.
2006-07-15 17:20:04 · answer #4 · answered by Michael L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok ...??? wait??? did you say your boyfriend always pleases you????? do you mean orally ???? Well..then...your already having sex... without penetration..... if he's doing it to you ...then why shouldn't you return the favor???? My answer would be completely different if you weren't having oral sex...then I would definitely tell you.. .don't ever let a guy force you into doing somehting you don't want to do !!!!!!!!!!!!!! You;re confused !!!
2006-07-15 21:41:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should be doing anything with a guy. If you aren't ready for sex (intercourse) you aren't ready for oral or any of it. And be careful, it sounds like your putting yourself in a dangerous situation.
As far as oral sex goes, you'll do it when you're ready. Everyone tries it, then if you don't like it, don't do it. But make that clear with anyone you'll be with. GL
2006-07-15 17:18:22 · answer #6 · answered by n0love 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Only do what you are ready for and comfortable with. If he leaves cause of that, then he wasnt worht it anyway.
Gotta give you osme credit for being a virgin. Hold on to it.
2006-07-15 17:19:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, good, you are willing for him to satisfy you (orally?), but you will not return the favor. I'm just wondering why he is still around.....
2006-07-15 17:15:11 · answer #8 · answered by April 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well if you like oral sex them u should do it but since you dont want to your boyfriend should respect that i hope he is okay with your decision and honestly if he isnt then he isnt worth you good luck :)
2006-07-15 17:18:12 · answer #9 · answered by briana m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting that you are against going down on him but you have no problem having him please you orally sounds like a double standard to me. I would suggest you think about this if you ain't pleasing him who is? Cause sombody is doing it if you ain't!
2006-07-15 17:16:52 · answer #10 · answered by fjrnj 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
then you 2 may not be compatible, i mean unless he is really understanding, if you DO NOT want to, then dont, if he leaves then it really wasnt meant to be, if you think YOU MAY want to try it, then go ahead, there is nothing wrong with it, and you cant say you hate it if you havent tried it but if it is something you are TOTALLY against then stand your ground
2006-07-15 23:12:11 · answer #11 · answered by ♥My 2 Cents♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋