I met this guy on a blind date and we really hit it off. But on the third date he said he liked me but only wanted to be friends. But we still kiss all the time and keep fooling around. I think I'm falling in love with him, but he just wants to be friends. Can we be more than friends? Or is it just my imagination
2006-07-15 10:08:36 · 13 answers · asked by lucy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can never change a guy. Only he can change himself. If in his head he only wants to be friends, then thats all your going to be. Maybe sex buddies but thats all.
2006-07-15 14:39:27 · answer #1 · answered by Heather 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You probably could, but why bother? Move on and love will find YOU. He has been upfront with you about his feelings, so even if you did try, and change his mind, he may feel resentful about it. You both seem to be searching (blind dates?), or maybe you're just bored. Be yourself and let him see THAT inner beauty. He is being open with you so tell him, you wanted to be MORE than friends, but will respect his feelings. By the way, don't have sex with him . . . it cheapens the relationship especially when you remain friends. He'll either respect it, or that's all he wanted in the first place-- to have you desire him by seeming unattainable. Peace.
2006-07-15 17:27:40 · answer #2 · answered by sylky614 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure! Perform a wet, slobbering snarling gnarling on his manhood. Be sure to look up at him lovingly when you do. He'll love it and think you're just fabuloso. He'll tell all his friends about your "special talent" and about how great a girl you are. You'll then have tons of boyfriends from which to choose. Just keep him happy by letting him use your bodily orifices at his convenience and everything will work out so wonderfully, you'll swear it's a dream. You go, girl! He's a keeper!!
2006-07-15 17:19:25 · answer #3 · answered by christopher s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck Yea Gurl... The Same thing happened to me but we did not meet on a blind date we was friends and the more we kissed and stuff it became more!!!!
2006-07-15 17:11:29 · answer #4 · answered by babyshay926 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll have to confront him as to why he felt the way he did. Maybe he had a reason for only wanting to be friends, maybe he has a family with kids, and didn't want to cheat, but still liked you. Maybe he wanted to take it slow, we pour out a lot of concealed messages. Ask him.
~Thomas
2006-07-15 17:11:05 · answer #5 · answered by tomhanken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bLIND DATE?? HEHEH .. read too much girlie mags, watch too much porn uh?? Normal people dont do that!
The answer lien in your age(20+?)
Do you earn something? Do you have a good degree?? Do you have a respectable skill? Then ahead.
If not, try to accomplish something in life before you venture out in to the love thing.
2006-07-15 17:12:15 · answer #6 · answered by Eric 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he just wants to be friends,dont think yu iwll change his mind.you wont.i stayed with a girl for a yr and a hlaf.i told her i just wanted to be firends.she didnt believe me,i kept telling her and finally i told her its over im out.we're great friends today.still care about each other.
2006-07-15 17:15:36 · answer #7 · answered by wizard1183 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut off the sex until he goes steady with you
2006-07-15 17:10:13 · answer #8 · answered by gamepro1990 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah you can be more than friends.... sex friends!!!! wake up honey and smell the truth!
2006-07-15 17:11:50 · answer #9 · answered by raizen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah
2006-07-15 17:09:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋