My bf hurts my feelings with just little things he says to me thats not even that serious and i feel like he's just taking my heart and stabbing it with a needle. I never use to feel like this, im much stronger than that but yet he gets to my weak side and i just get hurt off the smallest comments he says. Is it because im on my menstrul or i dont know i just feel so emotional.
2006-07-15 09:50:50 · 16 answers · asked by Tbaby 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to be only strong enough to tell him that you will not expose yourself to his behavior if he doesn't stop immediately. Teasing is a sign of anger and anger comes from not feeling appreciated. You can't change him, but you can draw the line. Typically, someone will get their feelings hurt and then retaliate instead of just saying how your feel and that you were hurt by that. You are 100% responsible for your reactions and no one makes you feel bad.
2006-07-15 09:54:30 · answer #1 · answered by Tony T 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's abusive shouldn't really matter about menstrul yet when I get mine I cry for some odd reason and feel really sad, so maybe it could be it after all see if you feel like that in a week or 2 and if you still feel bad break up with him and get away from the situation
2006-07-15 09:54:02 · answer #2 · answered by R.R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-07 23:12:50 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going through the same problem with my husband. Honestly, I just think men are stupid and totally unaware that certain things they say or do might hurt our feelings. It's not their fault it's in their programming. Try to talk to him about it and let him know how you feel. If he is serious about you he will stop, although maybe not right away. You will have to some patience with him because men forget easily. Hope this helps!
2006-07-15 09:56:45 · answer #4 · answered by shawnsbetterhalf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One, you should tell him that it hurts you. Tell him that it's serious, and that it's having severe effects on the relationship.
Two, if he doesn't try to correct it after you've told him, find a new man. Men who care about you won't say things they know will hurt you.
First and foremost, though, talk to him. You can't have a good relationship without it being open and honest.
2006-07-15 09:55:43 · answer #5 · answered by <3 The Pest <3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
R u on your cycle? If not than that can't be the reason. What do you think? Maybe your pregnant??? Maybe you should talk to your bf and tell him that you are not comfortable with the way he talks to you and it hurts your feelings if he loves you enough he will understand and change the way he talks so he doesn't hurt your feelings.
2006-07-15 09:55:04 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feeling heart broken is a nature of time. The practice of time in the very world would help you knowing the way you overcome this time. Best of luck to be happy!!
2006-07-15 10:02:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should talk to him about it, don't be nervous to talk, if he honestly cares about you he'll listen and if he doesn't listen then you need to break up. No one should have to endure pain, and emotional suffering because of something that can be taken care of so easily. Your too important.
2006-07-15 09:54:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey don't worry about anything. Past is past. Soft mind can't loose the valuable heart. so be cool
2006-07-15 09:56:33 · answer #9 · answered by kartik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its your feelings i think u need to let him go if he hurts u like that. he calls it small but to you its a big deal so go with your heart|
2006-07-15 09:53:50 · answer #10 · answered by CoaCoa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋