hi i think me and my bf have a problem we are both in a serious realtionship and although sex is new to us both, the times we have had sex, he hasnt managed to come :(
im rather worried, i know you girls are thinking whats wrong with you! he can go for ages, yes you are indeed correct but i want him to come as well!
i dont know if its me or what :s and i dunno what to do, cos he doesnt get much out of it really :(
help me :( thanx
2006-07-15 09:27:31 · 15 answers · asked by katie_orlandoarogorn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to him and ask him why
2006-07-15 09:29:58 · answer #1 · answered by dugu$ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
basically the problem is that ur going too fast. try slowing down a little instead of going fullthrottle the entire time. he's just trying too hard, and trust me, give him about 10 minutes on u and then maybe a half a minute of head before starting again and hell be done in five minutes. for some people it just takes a little longer to finish
2006-07-15 16:34:34 · answer #2 · answered by waffleman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you need to figure out whether he has a physical problem or not, can he do it when he masturbates? if so then everything functions properly physically so whatever is preventing it is in his head. he needs to figure out what it is and overcome it. you said sex is new to you so maybe its just nerves and performance anxiety, guys can get all screwed up over that stuff. try to make him feel secure and help him relax. maybe try masturbating him until he does, then work your way up to intercourse. also are you practicing safe sex? have you taken care of birth control issues so he doesn't have to worry about that? those things could weigh heavily on his mind.
2006-07-15 16:33:35 · answer #3 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is important to keep trying, he will come eventually. I understand the frustration of it taking so long, but I am sure it is not you. Perhaps he is nervous about cumming in front of you or something physically is wrong with him. Whatever it may be, it's his problem..not yours.
2006-07-15 16:32:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest it sounds like maby he masturbated allot. if that's the case that would make sense because it would take him allot longer to come. ask him if that's the case and if it is tell him to not do it as much because that's more than likely the problem!
2006-07-15 16:30:49 · answer #5 · answered by pinksgirlfriend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried other things maybe start w/ him first get him all worked up then jump on and prey he comes
2006-07-15 16:36:26 · answer #6 · answered by lynsey the librarian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but i dont have an answer for you're question.but it sounds to me that he may be cheating you with a nother girl and is probably gettin off with them. good luck
2006-07-15 16:33:27 · answer #7 · answered by Angel sent from heaven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he just is that good, maybe he has a problem down there he might need to get it checked out
2006-07-15 16:29:48 · answer #8 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not a female but what i suggest is that you sit him down and talk to him and ask him what the deal is
2006-07-15 16:30:26 · answer #9 · answered by Mark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's nervous.
the problem will go away by itself.
2006-07-15 16:41:16 · answer #10 · answered by leadbelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋