I've fallen in love with a straight man. He's my best friend. Is it wrong? I want to sleep with him, and to be with him, but he's straight. Could I turn him? Is it possible? I'd be happy with just giving him head. I can't stop thinking about him. What do I do? I can't lose him. I wouldn't survive. Can anyone help me.
2006-07-15 09:22:35 · 11 answers · asked by urbania05 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK, think about this...There is probably a girl out there that likes you, maybe even has a big secret crush on you. If she were to come and share her feelings and try to convince you to go out with her, could you be turned? Would you sympathize with her and try to like her? Try to picture such a scenario. What would you do? Since he is straight your answers will probably fit his. On the other hand he might not be straight...you never know? I think you should be sure if he is straight or not first..but if he is, I think you should just be friends `cause people don`t just choose their sexuality. Also if you want to keep his friendship and you know for sure he`s not gay..don`t tell him how you feel, he might feel awkward, and he might put you in an uncomfortable situation. Hope I helped. Good luck.
2006-07-15 09:33:58 · answer #1 · answered by Scooby 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no-it is not wrong to have a crush on anyone, gay or straight. but if you know your friend is straight, then no you can not turn him gay....would anyone be able to turn you straight?? one of my best friends is gay, and he explained how he was born gay, and how he never had to think about who he was attracted to --the same way i never gave it a thought about being attracted to males (i am a girl)--he said why would he choose to be gay when life would be easier to live as straight--that is how i know that being gay is not a choice or lifestyle, it is who you are.
don't do anything to jeapordize your friendship, don't come on to him, just stay friends and you will not lose him--set your sights on a gay guy who has all the qualities your friend has that makes him attractive to you.
2006-07-18 19:11:39 · answer #2 · answered by dlgrl=me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think it is possible to turn a straight person gay or vice-verse. It is a genetic disposition and would probably be best to try to stay his friend. It may be hard, but perhaps you can go out and meet other homosexual men. Good Luck.
2006-07-15 16:28:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude whats wrong with you? There are alot of girls out there that need your friend to be straight, so do them a favor and go to a gay bar or something.
2006-07-15 16:28:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, lots of people are straight, just ask him out
2006-07-15 16:24:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure go ahead and do all those things to him and watch him run for his life. you can't TURN someone gay, if he's not gay then he's not gay. you have to accept it and move on or risk scarring him off.
2006-07-15 16:25:43 · answer #6 · answered by origchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a boy friend that gay maybe your friend don't want to be gay get over it.
2006-07-15 16:27:23 · answer #7 · answered by powernewfie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its wrong...sheesh!
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-07-15 16:25:15 · answer #8 · answered by x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a friend he has in u!
2006-07-15 16:30:42 · answer #9 · answered by triniflavour44h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him.
2006-07-15 16:26:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋