What do people mean by that if you lose your virginity you cant get it back and some people regret it why?

Question

I mean if you did why do people say that once you do it ,you've done it I heard some girls say that its good to still be a virgin and they wish they never done it what happy once you do it something is taken away

Answer 1

what don't you understand??

Answer 2

The term is quite lose, in societies, when some dick penetrates, it is considered gone.
Don't worry, even doctors can't 100% certify it.
The hymen, membrane, that is causing all these frenzy and headache comes in all shapes.
Some are super thin and almost enclose the whole passage, thus, tear is unevitable if penetration occurs.
Some are ringed but elastic enough not to tear until your first birth.
If it tears some bleed, some just a few drops, mixed with your love juice, who can be sure, was it there or not?
Lots of athletes tore them from vigorous exercises, you can even break it while cycling.
Through whatever point of view they are pure.
If you're no more a ginny, and you don't squeak who knows. Its all in your mind of betrayal if you like to put it this way.
You can easily fake slight pain or discomfort, can't you?
No blood? ask God, I dunno.
Who says non virgins are loose.
Is it so easy to loosen the vaginal muscles if you do not subject it to prolonged extensive usage? Feeble minds!
THIS IS NOT AN ENCOURAGEMENT NOTE!
Its meant for those pity souls who think that they're impure, some, not of their own doing.
Worst still, in our present society, some dames still regret not saving it for their mr. right. Who are their mr. right?
For today, its right, tomorrow on the rocks, mr......wrong.
Make up your mind which is right which is wrong.
Who can tell for sure.
If its done, its done no use crying over spoilt milk.
If a white lie can help you live a harmonious life, why not.
Its your family thats most important, what society, what religion, what conscience, my foot.

Answer 3

How can you get your virginity back once you lose it???? Like getting a brand new car and getting it in a crash and then saying it can be new again. It will never be new again. Maybe it can get a new paint job and the dents taken out but it will never be a new car again any more than a girl that loses her virginity can get it back. Just not possible. Sorry about that. Best to wait so you are not used merchandise.

Answer 4

This is a long and complicated question really, but a simple answer. Once you are no longer a virgin, you cannot "become" a virgin again.

Some women find the phrase "losing their virginity" to be offensive, actually. It implies they are somehow "less" because of it.

I believe it all boils down to how YOU feel about YOURS. Depending on your own belief system, religion, upbringing, etc, all of those things will affect how you feel about having it or not having it.

Some people find "still being a virgin" to be a stigma and so they want to "lose" it. Sometimes they will have sex with just about anyone to "get rid" of it, as if it were a thing. It is not a THING, it is how you feel about yourself, really.

I "lost" mine by being raped when I was thirteen. I was very sad about it, and felt that it could have been a lovely gift to give someone I loved when I got older. Now I am thirty one, married, and I frequently tell my husband that I feel as if I am a virgin when we have sex. I am not, of course, but what I mean is that I feel like I am learning all over again what makes sex good and wonderful.

Sometimes women who "lose" it with someone they don't care about regret it because it made them feel horrible, whether it was a rape (like my case) or their own choice. The experience itself is what makes them feel awful, and it's because it can be traumatizing.

I could go on and on...I blog about sex, but unless you're over eighteen, I won't lead you to read what I have to say. Legalities and all, you know...

Answer 5

I was a virgin itll I got married at age ... cough cough.... 31... twenty years ago ... I hope you did not hear that... and it was wonderful... I would be less happy if I had sex and did not wait.

One of the greatest theologians of the church in the first 1000 years Augstine Bishop of Hippo in Africa was a wild man... his mother Monica cried tears praying for her son and his live in girlfired.... but NEWSFLASH...he repented and was used by God... Jesus forgiveness and restoration is real

one mistake is saying havin sex once before marriage is ok it really doesn matter and in the end wont hurt you

another mistake is saying you cannot be forgiven or used by God after

well... I know some very promiscuous guys who paid for girls to have abortions and later became Christians

although they in a way could not become as if it didnt happen, cuz it did and God has forgiven them, the made a comittment to abstain till marriage and stuck to it. One guy after several years marrying aq woman he is very happily married to and he became a youth pastor

Jesus forgiveness is real, He can help you start over
He did it for others

Answer 6

when you have sex you lose your innocence of being a virgin. Those that lose it usually do so for the wrong reason and wish they had never lost it. You virginity is something that should be a treasure to you rather you be male or female. It is a part of you that should not be treated like it is to be given to just anyone. People lack respect for themselves but can't stand for others not to respect them.

Answer 7

Virginity is special, if your religious, and I suppose even if your not. It can be looked at as a gift to your husband, that you saved yourself for only him, that something so intimate between two people, an act of love, you kept special.

I lost my virginity at 17. Once you lose it, you cant get it back. You can never again be someone who has not had sex. And yes, I regret it. It changed my life, and I wish I had waited.

Answer 8

I don't see why it matters. Its not like you feel differnet when your a virgin than you do when your not. I guess girls just like being able to say they're still a virgin.... its something thats cool and unusual. Thats what they really miss about being a virgin----- being able to say they are. Its really stupid when you think about it. Some girls say their virginity is a gift for their husbands. I don't think it would make any difference to husband if you were a virgin or not. He himself most likely isnt. Unless both people are virgins its not special or a gift.

Answer 9

Dear Numbers....

What you do with your virginity is entirely up to you. It is your body and you can do with it exactly as you wish.

It is not the church's business...nor your family's...nor the Bible's...nor your friends...nor your religion's, etc etc ...Do you get me?
Nothing happens when you lose your virginity, it's not like losing your nose or something!

However, perhaps girls should not be thinking about "losing" it ...but rather...."giving" it...in this way you become responsible for when, how, and who with you go through the experience.

Your body is a temple....respect it.....the rest is private!

Answer 10

some people are just too serious!!!
who cares about virginity, its just a word, it doesnt mean anything, unless your the sort of person with your head stuck in a bible, and its nothing to regret either.
theres alot worse mistakes you can make in life than that, (unless you get an unwanted pregacy or STD from your first time)
ive never known of anyone having something taken away from them after doing it.
those people need to get in the real world where theres real problems....... or get their heads back in their bibles and stop trying to brain wash others with their religious ideas.

Answer 11

I think its kind of like how a child wants to be an adult so badly when they are growing up. Then when they finally become an adult there is nothing new to get excited about, people wish they could go back to when everything was new and exciting and never tryed before.