i love this guy so much and he says he loves me,how do i know he is sincere and doesnt just want to use and dump me
2006-07-15 07:58:59 · 34 answers · asked by lovely 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In love with a player you just met? Sounds like lust to me. Also, you know what will potentially happen. Don't expect a deep, meaningful relationship. Be honest with yourself.
2006-07-15 08:03:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah girl i was in that same situation and it did not turn out too good, just cut him off while u still can , but only if u really know he is a player. Girl men can lie so good till it dont even make any sense, u cant tell if he is being sincere, u just have to go with what you know.
2006-07-15 08:14:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you just met him, then how do you know he is a player? And how do you know you love him? Give it more time! Here is how you can find out if he is sincere: stay friends for a while, but do not attach yourself physically. If he really loves you, he will respect that decision and keep after you.... respectfully.
2006-07-15 08:03:20 · answer #3 · answered by Arwen89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Players" make the worst "lifetime" mates! They're too hung up on themselves and feel the need to continually get reassurance by strutting themselves around as many women as they think they can attract! Very inflated egos that need constant attention!
You'll probably be ditched after a short time in favor of a new fling.
Is this what you want to deal with?
2006-07-15 08:06:14 · answer #4 · answered by love_2b_curious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know the answer. YOu said it in your question..."he is a player". BOOM!!! You are already intelligent and knowledgeable--USE IT to your advantage. Drop out of love with him, cry and get it over with for 24 hours, and get someone else. Chances are, he is using you. GIve him space and see how he works his space. Then you will see....I did. This answer is from experience from almost a middle age perspective. It never ends...smile
I found out alot.
2006-07-15 08:05:31 · answer #5 · answered by L B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Iif he's a player and you know that for a fact... DUMP HIM
I know it'll be really hard, but if you don't you'll be the one getting hurt in the end!!!
Good Luck and look after your heart!
D*
2006-07-15 08:01:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know hes a player, dont even waste your time with him. if hes cheated before chances are he'll cheat again. you sound a lot like one of my friends. her boyfriend cheater on her 3 times and always took him back but now shes realized after having her heart broken that theres just no way you can change a person like that.
2006-07-15 08:02:36 · answer #7 · answered by Alexandra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweete from experience stay away from a player. He will never be loyal to you thats why he is a player. Dont set yourself up for heartbreak
2006-07-15 08:01:38 · answer #8 · answered by fred g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I met my husband, I thought that he was a player, but I found out that he really was a good catch, only time will tell.
2006-07-15 08:01:22 · answer #9 · answered by adrixia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes just playing you like all the other girls. to him your nothing special so dont let him to get to you anymore. stop your feelings for him now and dump him. cause in the end thats exactly what he is going to do to you. so play the playa. and dump his first. it will hurt less.
2006-07-15 08:01:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋