Well, we have been exchanging emails for like 6 years. I finally travelled to her and saw her for the first time. She told me she is in love with someone and that we are just friends. Now I'm back home but completely torn apart. I can't do nothing about it. I can't help loving her. It is just like if the world ran out of girls and she is the only one there. I wish her luck with the man she loves coz I want her to be happy, but at the same time I wish if she could be with me.
2006-07-15 07:56:09 · 13 answers · asked by universal 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Now I'm back home, but I don't know what happened to me. I'm so happy and want to smile, but at the same time I'm so sorrowful and really want to cry. However, I can neither find tears in my eyes, nor can I find someone to tell them about what I feel. I loved her... I lover her so much.... I can't forget the way she laughs. Yes I loved her. She is the greatest happiness of my life. I can't believe I found her at last and I'm not ready to lose her. I keep thinking how blind I was before I saw her. I ask God to keep her safe and make her even more smiling.
I've been avoiding falling in love coz I ran through bad experiences before. I built several walls around myself but that girl brought all those walls down at the first time we met. Now my life turned into real torture. I don't know what to do.
2006-07-15 07:56:40 · update #1
Ok mr universal!! I know what im gonna say is not the most right thing to do but what the hell :P you love this girl and your love is real as i can tell from what you wrote.. go back and try to win her!! fight for your love and dont give up !! im not saying go there and throw her bf out something.. just be around her and spend time with her.. Let her know you better! show her how much you care for her and what would u give to have her..It's really worth trying and fighting to get her since you love her so much..
If you try this but still nothing happens then u know what i think? you are going to meet someone else and at least you will be happy for meeting that kind of person in ur life.. even if u cant be with her u can at least have the memory of her..
However i really support that you go back there and get your girl! this life is short and we have to take risks!
Be confident and go get her! =D
2006-07-15 08:13:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have been exchanging emails with her for 6 yrs.Have any of u,or both of u,been as friends or as potential lovers?If none of u addressed love,then the matter ends here in being just friends.If it was onesided love,from ur side,and somehow u mistook her friendliness as love,then u need to rethink and make an attempt to change the directions of ur thougts to a more mature outcome.U met her.she told u she loves somebody else.Maybe what she says is true,maybe she has no attraction for u,maybe she doesnt see a possible potential of u being her lover.Love has to be twosided.Onesided love is a torture,even if the couple gets united.Accept and move.You can be friends with her as u were.Romance and love is not the end of the world.She can still be a part of ur life as a friend.Try focusing on urself more,than her.
2006-07-15 08:12:28 · answer #2 · answered by aquarian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it good you i home and turn apart it the process when you get turn down bye love you fell that way it took my cousin 2 years to get over her own now she has move on with her live and find the real true love of her life. it ok for you to feel that way after all you went through before fulling in love with her, and it good that you know you love someone before but it didn't work cause she's in love with another person, and more good you don;t which the worse for her life keep asking god for all the right think to happen in her life think of and prayed for her and ask god to help you forget her, in no time you will be back to finding the real true love of ur life. good luck and alway love cause is love that keep this earth going.
2006-07-15 08:09:12 · answer #3 · answered by celi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first you need to breathe. Yes i know it sounds corny but sit down and take a couple big breaths. Then you need to cry, it will come, when it does just let it out. Then you need to realize that she is NOT the last girl on earth. If she waited until you got there to tell you she was with someone else then why would you want to be with her anyway? It will take sometime to get over but until you do just go out with your friends and try to do stuff that doesnt remind you of her. Good luck!
2006-07-15 08:02:40 · answer #4 · answered by à®håñtøm?Még? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As the saying goes, the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else. Now I don't mean to say that you should go sleep with someone else, but the idea is to move on with someone else and that will make you forget the first person.
2006-07-15 08:00:40 · answer #5 · answered by kristen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel you man. I'm in the same position you are. Even though i love this one girl sooo much, if she doesn't like you, you can't force someone to like you. Can you? Just face it, the girl is just an obstacle you need to get over in life and move on. contact me if you need anything.
2006-07-15 08:09:29 · answer #6 · answered by wonderfull 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bluntly, it sounds like you didn't talk to her about the relatinship at all, but avioded talking about feelings for each other, dating each other, love, etc. It sounds like you were afriad to bring conversation in that direction because you had been hurt before and wanted to at least be friends now instead of risking that she might not want more from you. That is how it sounds. So now you are deeply hurt that you were "deceived," but she really couldn't be blamed because she never knew what more to expect from you than friends. Now you are wishing to talk about feelings and emotions and are talking to everyone about your "love" that you had, but were unable to convey to her.
My advice is to learn from this and hope to get it right next time.
2006-07-15 08:08:54 · answer #7 · answered by D H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is so sad....
i kno what you're going through tho...just hang in there..it will get better over time...love without pain isn't really love, and to find love, you have to go through immense amounts of pain before you reach it. but once you reach it is incredible, even if you lose it, just remember the feeling.
trust me.
2006-07-15 08:01:55 · answer #8 · answered by lifeistough_period 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time to move on
this girl isn't even thinking about you..why waste your energy and time on her...true love does not exist
in real life there isn't no happy ending...
you just have to go on with your life...find someone way better..
good luck
2006-07-15 08:21:17 · answer #9 · answered by Immortal Goddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need to move on!! She lost her chance to have u and now u need to move on and find someone eles. Theres someone out there 4 everybody!!!
Good luck
2006-07-15 08:03:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋