i want to make my girlfriend as happy as possible, what are some things (nomatter how small) that i can do to accomplish that. thank you for any help.
2006-07-15 07:13:57 · 23 answers · asked by mitch w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The most important thing is to open your eyes ; and see what happens to her hair , clothes , parfumes , look , etc .
She wears for you !!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-15 07:18:12 · answer #1 · answered by citizen high 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah...
The best advice that I have ever received I shall pass on...:
When in a disagreement, reply. "Yes, Dear"
Never go to bed, even its on the couch, angry.
THIS IS GOLDEN: THIS WILL MAKE OR BREAK A RELATIONSHIP: Communicate: LISTEN to her, give her feedback BUT, when she is complaining about something JUST LISTEN, no feedback unless she asks for it, then give a short, concise response that is objective so she can continue.
Story time: I remember asking a homeless man that was vet about any advice about relationships (Being a young smart ...jerk). He looked like he was reminiscing and then said, "Communication..., the moment you stop, the moment you've lost everything in your life" That has always been something I held close.
Do not interrupt her either when she is talking.
Complement everyday on how she looks and make sure you always find something positive
If you really dont like something that she is wearing, be gentle about it. Women bust their buts to prepare themselves.
Lots and lots of closeness. Dont be in her face but be close
Hold Hands often
No matter how bad a day you have had, always comment/greet her with how glad you are to see her.
Think of how much you appreciate her not only for her physical appreance, but also about her efforts, no matter how small, she does to accomidate you everyday.
The funny part is is that everyone wants to find ways on what to BUY to make their girlfriends/wives happy. After many years of experience, it is safe to say that gifts are nice. Maybe every 5 years get a gold necklace or a set of small diamond earrings. Maybe after you have 2-3 kids get her a mothers day ring but other than that, the greatest gifts that will make her go gagga for you daily is how you communicate, listen, and have patience with her.
Sounds easy till you try it, takes practice, but if this is your love of your life, you'll want to do it.
More advice:
Star lit walks on the beach!
Take her to a tall area that shows the sky and stare at the stars
Day things are great, but is distractive you want something that is nothing else but you and her.
Soft jazz music and make her a candle light dinner once the kids are asleep. (wont happen often but watch how much she talks about it
The probably most important parts
Apologize when you are wrong
Mean what you say and do whole heartedly (sp), if you dont feel you mean it when you do it, then if she doesnt see it now she will later.
But remember its not the gifts from the store, its the gifts from the heart.
2006-07-15 14:36:20 · answer #2 · answered by avengress 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's nice to want to do things for her, but if she's not already happy, you can't make her so. She'll just return to her current happiness level afterward. 1> Be a positive and happy friend, 2> be an understanding listener 3> Notice I haven't talked about gifts yet since the relationship is what matters, 4> Do some things she really likes 5> bring her some cut flowers
2006-07-15 14:18:40 · answer #3 · answered by Tony T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remind her daily of your feelings. Maybe even tell her you took it as far as coming on yahoo and asking people for advice. Heres something I think is so sweet that I saw on a movie once but no one ever did for me :( ..... play a game with her. Put instructions all through the house like when she wakes up, have a letter hanging from the ceiling right in front of her and have it say like good morning beautiful or something and then have the first direction on it. Basically have the little notes she finds lead to a candle lit dinner or a dozen of roses hidden in the bathroom or something. You can actually do anything I just think making a game out of it is so sweet. She'd be crazy if she didnt get happy over that! Well good luck & keep us posted :)
2006-07-15 14:19:14 · answer #4 · answered by Fearfully & wonderfully made 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her. Tell her how you feel. Look in her eyes. Touch her hand. Hug her. Talk to her. Listen to her. Walk next to her. Don't let your eyes wander to other women. Respect her. Open the door for her. Pull her chair out for her. Brush her hair. Give her a single flower that you picked. Give her a card, just because. Make her breakfast. Take her on a picnic to a park. Lay a blanket under the stars and just talk. Tell her she is beautiful.
Not necessarily in that order! =o)
2006-07-15 14:19:49 · answer #5 · answered by sarlha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surprise her with gifts every so often, when u go out pay for the both of you, call her to say hi when she's not expecting it, stick little romantic notes in her pockets when she's not aware of it, give her a massage, cook for her, do things you wouldn't normally do for her. Of course don't overdo it. Don't become too giving and predictable cuz then she'll probably get tired of it and dump you. Oh, and when she talks to you or wants to talk about how her day went, listen to her. Even if she's just complaining.
2006-07-15 14:20:31 · answer #6 · answered by Gabi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy her some chocs flowers and she will melt in ya arms or so i have heard buy a pizza and some porn that works so i heard nah really the trick is just be faithfull to her give her space when she needs it be there when she needs you take her on holiday and stuff and then she be happy if she not happy after that then well i say go back to the pub and try all over again lol
2006-07-15 14:19:30 · answer #7 · answered by xsarahx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off mitch, you are a lovely guy to even ask this question. this thoughtful gesture itself is a great indication of the kind of man you are. as a woman i will tell you what makes a woman happy. just "LISTEN" to her. when she's speaking don't hear, listen. pay close attention because in those conversations are tucked away small gems that, if you remember, you can use to surprise her with. any small gesture that pertains to something she has mentioned to you- will make her day. and she will love you for paying attention. trust me.
2006-07-15 14:23:47 · answer #8 · answered by freudianslipper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The little things are always the best. Tell her how you feel about her. Hold her close. Look into her eyes. Do all those nice touchy-feely things...play with her hair, rub her arm, play with her fingers...it makes us feel special. Watch her favorite chick flick with her... bust most of all just be yourself and have fun.
2006-07-15 14:19:45 · answer #9 · answered by Jaqua 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pay attention to her when she talks to you. Make her feel special even if you pick a flower and give it to her, leave her little notes in surprise places telling her how great she is and always be honest.
2006-07-15 14:17:07 · answer #10 · answered by luveyinpa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what part of her body are sensitive. You can get a toy and play with her, there are tons of thins you can do but first you need to find what she likes.
2006-07-15 14:18:50 · answer #11 · answered by sandra s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋