okay, today i saw this picture of kate n Leonardo in Titanic on the yahoo homepage and it was sayin sumfin like the romantic movies we watch really messes up our psyche concernin romance, i'd like2know if this is true! i wouldnt know cuz tho'im 19, im still2meet my prince charmin n till i meet him, im not prepared2settle4less but i still havent found him n im beginnin2fink ím d one sumfin is wrng wit...i watch alot of romantic movies, is dt my problem?
2006-07-15 06:55:52 · 9 answers · asked by Ziyah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay thanks guys, but u r asking me to stop believing in fairy tales...that santa claus doesnt exist! i know santa doesnt exist but still...u r tellin me to stop hopin, to stop lookin4dt one guy i know would help me deal with my insecurities, to stop lookin4dt one special glance dt would put everything right? wow! thats gonna be hard, cuz my very first crush was almost all dt...
2006-07-15 07:26:51 · update #1
I happen to think the most romantic movie in the world is "The Ref" because a seriously dysfunctional couple gets everything out in the open and fall in love all over again.
Movies that are billed as Romantic or Romantic Comedies sometimes show us one person's perception of romance (maybe the writer... maybe the director... I'm not a film critic).
The problem isn't with the movies, but instead comes from our prection of life and how we base it on what we see. It was a very romantic scene seeing Kate floating on the door with Leo in the water holding her hand and giving her encouragement... but most men will agree that it would have been much more romantic for her to scoot her butt over so he could get on the door too.
It's ok to watch romantic movies as long as you remember that it is fantasy, and more often than not, it is not going to reflect what is going on in your life at any given moment... the most romantic thing you can do is watch the movies and then remember they are movies... and don't expect men to live up to the superstars' image of what love should be.
2006-07-15 07:09:16 · answer #1 · answered by Rev T L Clark 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honestly if your going to believe what some artical or someones payed opinion is on weather you watch romantic movies screws up the psyche of romantic relations. The only time logistically that happens is when people start trying to live their life like a movie or reference movies for their relational problems. Thats not a good idea and it doesn't help. IF you think this is why you don't have friggin bf thats probably the least of your issues. Be who you are accept that eveolve as a person don't worry about the movies are for personal enjoyment but they are good when they move us in our own lives. Like the Notebook and others. Lets be realistic you don't live life like a book don't live life by a movie. I hope that helps your ?
2006-07-15 07:04:57 · answer #2 · answered by txwalkr99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing with romantic movies they put things in a different view. It doesn't really mess up unless you remember it's just hollywood using their magic. Hollywood is nothing but fantasy it's good to watch just for your entertainment, but remember most of the movie you watch didin't really happen in real life.
2006-07-15 07:03:19 · answer #3 · answered by Berties 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a problem. On the real, if you are talking about meeting a man and you refer to him as "my prince" you've watched too many movies and they could be making you look at life through rose tinted glasses.
I watch them with my g/f and they are hilarious but we look at them just like that...they are cute but it is all a script.
2006-07-15 07:00:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No the only person who mess up your love life is you or the other person you're with. Some people can try to mess your realationships up but the other person (and you) must choose to still be with him/her or to believe what they say.
2006-07-15 07:03:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like anything, if you take movies or music too seriously, you'll get a false sense of reality.
2006-07-15 07:00:25 · answer #6 · answered by j_blayze420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, it is what you put into your own relationship whereas you can get a little experience from movies.
2006-07-15 07:01:08 · answer #7 · answered by firewall 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I think your problem, if indeed you have one, is that you can't spell worth a damn
2006-07-15 06:58:53 · answer #8 · answered by lovesyourdiamond 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it realy dosn't
2006-07-15 07:01:42 · answer #9 · answered by J0lLy rANchEr fRum dAT sWeet t0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋