i was in a bycycle accident and lost part of my penis, and now i am afraid to get intimate with my girlfriend. i never told her about the accident, and i am embarassed and afraid to tell her. does anyone have any ideas on how to tell her or dealing with this?
2006-07-15 06:46:40 · 11 answers · asked by irishlad 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if she asks tell her you were injured in a firefight against some insurgents that were trying to destroy an orphanage, you were hit in that spot while carying 5 orphants to safety.
or tell her that it was a sports related accident where you got clipped in the groin by another football players cleated shoe.
tell her that your ex did it because she was a phsychopath and now she is in a mental hospital and thats why you are so shy and nervous around her.
never admit to a woman that you broke your peepee when you fell off your tricicle.
all injuries and wounds should be explained as battle scars or sports related wounds
2006-07-15 07:00:38 · answer #1 · answered by zether 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all.. Im sorry that happend...
But you know if she loves you she will understand.
one way to test it is to tell her. Don't write her a letter cause that could get out and someone else could read it.
That is not a good idea. It is better to tell her in person.
Just like that other guy said.. sit her down and have a conversation and ask her this..." Would you like me no matter what?" " If I had a problem or if I didn't?"
Then that is your time to start the conversation she will probably answer you.. then you can start in.
Dont be embarressed and ashamed. I know the feeling.
I always hurt down below all of the time cause I got Hit down there really hard when I was young. and I have never been the same. Dont wait till you are marriade.,
Tell her first. If she does not understand and leaves you.
then she is not worth it at all.
forget her. someone out there will appreciate you no matter what....
I know I wouldnt care much!!
Good luck !
2006-07-15 13:58:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that dude well sit her down have a cup of tea or soda whatever and tell her or if you can't do that write her a letter I am sure she will understand as she loves you for you not your penis good luck I hope it all goes well for you
2006-07-15 13:51:53 · answer #3 · answered by Ron R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her and run as she will be laughing her head off. Next time you should be a bit more careful how you play with it when riding a bike.
2006-07-15 13:50:54 · answer #4 · answered by ramall1to 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really want to be serious with this person, explane it to her and let her know that its a very fragle subject. have her understand that not only is it not a joke (and if she asks to see, wait till your happily married to get that close) but its very serious. because it is. if she doesnt understand or isnt posotive about it, or just responds irresponsibly about it, she probably isnt the right person for you.
2006-07-15 14:02:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off i am sorry about that but u still need to tell her the truth if she really loves you then she wont care so just try that and let me know how that went
2006-07-15 13:52:32 · answer #6 · answered by high school girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her.
if she really loves you, she'll stay.
if she doesn't, and is just in for sex...she won't...
even if you're married, your penis could be cut off for a lot of different reasons...so...you have to tell her now...find out now.
2006-07-15 14:12:09 · answer #7 · answered by crimsonmoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really hope you aren't joking about this.
Just tell her, if she stays you got a good one there, if not she isn't worth your time anyway!
2006-07-15 14:03:52 · answer #8 · answered by brown eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her anything about it. Once you get to know her and then marry her, then tell her everything. She will understand.
2006-07-15 13:49:46 · answer #9 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she really loves you she will understand. If she doesn't, she doesn't love you. Sorry to break it to you like that but it's the truth.
2006-07-15 13:58:56 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Ms. Heart♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋