Don't they make as much money as men do? Why do men always have to deal with the pressure of having to pay for everything, and why do most women take advantage of this? It sickens me.
2006-07-15 06:43:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude, blame it on society. Just like men have oppressed women for many many many years, making women feel inferior to men, society has made women feel that men should be the one to take care of them.And many men feel that way too. But the new generations are starting to change this, including you, who sees that women are equal to men , and should be financilaly too.
2006-07-15 06:58:40 · answer #1 · answered by laura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women are not like that. Perhaps you need to take a good look at the kind of woman you find attractive. High maintenance women seek out men they can use but it is usually obvious from day one that this is their goal.
Strong, independent women aren't like this. I know I always offer to at least split the first date, and pick up the tab upon occasion after that. You can find beautiful women who are also strong and independent.
I find men that date users are usually obsessed with dating the hottest woman they can find, and often younger women who only date older guys because they know they have more money and will spend it on them (because they need the ego boost of a younger woman).
Start dating a woman that is your equal and you'll find this problem evaporates.
2006-07-15 13:49:49 · answer #2 · answered by Lori A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think Lori has it exactly right. Stop going for the princess'. Take my current guy for example. Married one, went to Iraq, and came home to an empty house and an empty bank account. Now he's got me, and trust me I'm hot but I'm a tomboy and not a princess at all. When we got out he'll buy dinner one time or I will. It's a mutal relationship. I would never ask someone to buy everything all the time. That's just wrong. Find an independent women who's stable and doesn't need or want your money. You'll probably be happier.
2006-07-15 13:55:25 · answer #3 · answered by pyxie_grl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arrr, you must have had some bad experiences if judging all women as one. Yes, some women are money motivated or wish to take their men for granted but not all, you've just not been fishing in the right pool.
Some women make as much money as men and their men can take them for granted and they can be selfish but it's give and take, the minority of takers to the majority of givers, or the majority of takers to the minority of givers either way it pretty much balances itself out.
There is a saying you know, how we attract one type and maybe you are attracting the ones you really wanna avoid.
Maybe you should take a look at what it is that attracts you to these types of women, maybe you could find one who likes to pay her own way, gives back what she takes one who considers the other person, just go and fish somewhere else, who knows what is on the other end of that hook.
Stop judging all as one then maybe the bucket won't be needed anymore [it makes me sick]
2006-07-15 13:55:05 · answer #4 · answered by WW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we're not..and you know that...you're just trying to stir the women up to get more responses to your question..
2006-07-15 13:55:15 · answer #5 · answered by Syeira 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I AM A WOMAN AND I RESENT THAT COMMENT. I AM A GOOD WOMAN SO DONT STEREOTYPE ME....THANK YOU
2006-07-15 13:51:40 · answer #6 · answered by Feathers-n-Lace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur kidin right
2006-07-15 13:47:41 · answer #7 · answered by tb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋