I'm attracted to a lot of black chicks but it's hard for me to get close to one. Any ideas?
2006-07-15 06:29:48 · 13 answers · asked by Jason J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The thing is you can't be scared of them, you have to be able to go up to them and talk. They like guys who aren't afraid to be themselves around them. You could start by saying hi to them and you can even tell them you think they look beautiful. But if you remain too scared to approach them you will never get anywhere.
2006-07-15 06:35:49 · answer #1 · answered by Contesta 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your term 'get a black chick' suggests that you are looking for a trophy to brag about. I hope that is not the case.
You possibly need to re-think your reasoning and consider that black girls are human beings too, and if you are kind, considerate, decent, polite, hygienic and gentle and ask a coloured girl out on a date, she will also see that YOU are a real human being and a potential PERSON, not a trophy hunter.
Black and coloured women are magnificent and a high percentage are incredibly beautiful, but the 'looks' does not make the woman any more than the colour does.
No matter WHAT colour a woman is, she will respond to interest, kindness, politeness, and decency, unless she's totally stupid and practices unconditional loud-mouthed reverse racism.
Stupidity is not limited to any colour or ethnicity or stature.
Shorter brunettes are every bit as attractive as tall blondes, no matter what the colour of their skin.
2006-07-15 13:36:03 · answer #2 · answered by fiddlesticks9 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop looking for a "black chick" Just go out their,check library's coffee bars, and urban clubs with friends. Eventually you'll meet people and start talking be respectful and real.
2006-07-15 13:33:55 · answer #3 · answered by christine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Black chicks aren't any different than any other type of girl you know..So just use the same technics..smile and show that you are interested ;) Get to know them better 1st..That should work lol...
Take care.
2006-07-15 13:35:01 · answer #4 · answered by 4eva-pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you niticed that its hard to find a black chick with a hispanic, or a black chick with an asian, or a black chick with a white guy? Most of the time, black chicks go for black guys! But please....dont act black or like one og those gangster homie g's! That only means your lying to the blavk girls and lying to yourself. Me? Im a hispanic, and I want a white guy, but white guys want tall thin and blonde girls and Im short petite and brunette. You have to deal with life. Black girls are ghetto and want ghetto boys!
2006-07-15 13:36:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hey Jason! I'm black and I'm not ghetto. Besides, just talk to them. black girls are people too you know. It's not like we're aliens.
2006-07-15 14:05:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST BE YOU AND YOU SHOULD BE OK ALL BLACK WOMEN ARE NOT GHETTO IF YOU ARE DEALING WITH A TRUE WOMEN.AND THE GIRL WHO MADE THAT STATEMENT DOESN'T KNOW WHAT THE HELL SHE IS TALKING ABOUT IF YOU ARE DEALING WITH A REAL WOMEN WE ALL WANT A REAL MAN NOT A GHETTO ONE.
2006-07-15 13:58:34 · answer #7 · answered by camille_harris25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Got 50 bucks?
2006-07-15 13:32:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
its different with every girl
but first you got to stop lookin at the color
and look at who they are
be yourself and youll find one interested enough
2006-07-15 13:36:32 · answer #9 · answered by tb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i'm black its not hard im me well talk
2006-07-15 19:05:33 · answer #10 · answered by careinge 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋