yes, i think im ugly too, but how do you manage to get someone to notice you if you arent much of a looker? i mean, in this day and age, people seem to go for looks an awful lot so those who arent very goodlooking seem to not get noticed much by people of the opposite sex...what do you do?
by the way, im young and female...just so you get an idea!
2006-07-15 06:24:53 · 20 answers · asked by Miss Terious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think its about time to start loving yourself for how God made you. and love yourself so you then can love others. Cause first of all you need to love yourself.
I know now the day and age people do look for the looks more of people. But alot are finding out that if you get the most Beautiful girl and very skinny and practicly perfect. Her heart is cold and bitter and her personality stinks!
So now they are coming to the realization more and more that its whats inside that counts more. If you are a girl thats got a solid and hard heart then no one will want to be with you, You need to soften that heart up a little and give it room to grow. Guys who notice the out side appearance is the guys that only want the girl for sex!
Or a play toy that they can play with. A guy that respects you and loves you for more then your appearance is a keeper. And look for those kind of guys and believe me they are out there. You just have to be patient and wait for him to come!!
Until then and while you are waiting.. Start getting your self asteem back where it belongs. Start prepping yourself for his arrival. Make yourself Gorgerous.. Do you hair so it is very pretty and start looking pretty, But not for the guys feelings but for your feelings as well. You want to say that you are beautiful . NEVER SAY THAT YOU ARE NOT! Because those are only lies from Satan that he is filling in your mind. I may be the only one saying this. and even if I have'nt even seen you before. Anyway's I know that You are made from God so you are precious in his eyes. Why does other things matter to you. When your creater is pleased! ?
Nothing else should worry you. A guy that is in love with you from everything is the guy you should marry!
These are good words to remember. From now on get up every morning and look in the mirror and say to yourself .. Iam pretty, Iam gorgeous and no matter what people may say, My creator Know's best. and He sees me as a dimond in his eyes.
2006-07-15 06:35:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you don't need a guy's attention to feel good about yourself. There's only one person that will love you forever, just as you are, and if that's not you, you will be lonely no matter how many guys are all over you. I know this, because I am a survivor of extreme self hatred. I would cry every day because I was fat and ugly, and threw myself at the first guy who showed any interest. We've been married for almost 3 years, he has made me feel like crap the whole time, and I thought I could never do any better. (by the way, we're getting divorced.) PLEASE LOVE YOURSELF! that's I guess all I can say.. good luck, beautiful.
2006-07-15 06:36:22 · answer #2 · answered by Alysianna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty comes from the inside. I get more compliments on my personailty than my looks, because when people meet me they love being around me. You need to feel good about yourself on the inside before you start feeling beautiful on the outside.
If you have problems with your appearance ask someone who you think is beautiful to help you. Help you dress, the biggest thing in what you wear is how it is put together, some people just don't know how.
Ask for makeup tips, learn how to apply and get a hairstyle that flatters your face. You can ask for make up tips at any mall, most makeup counter reps will give you a make over some for free, at most 20.00. They don't usually advertise it, but if you ask and don't mind onlookers, they'll do it.
But work on your inside first. Thats the most important part!!!
2006-07-15 06:37:12 · answer #3 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you are right , its is looks that attract people in the first place. So to get over the looks thing you have to have a real nice personality and once people get talking to you and grow to like you the looks don't matter any more. You may have to develop eye contact and start conversations yourself rather than waiting for people to come to you.
2006-07-15 06:33:29 · answer #4 · answered by rp804110 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may seem beauty as an ideal, is defined by the media, but thankfully we are all different and attracted to diffrent people. I am of course extremely good looking and at nearly 50, have to literally fight off the 18 yr olds!
Like your self first, be interesting, learn who you are and what suits you and love will happen. Faster than my 18 yr old arriving on my doorstep i suspect!
2006-07-15 06:36:15 · answer #5 · answered by Ade Babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You forget all about finding a boyfriend cos once you do your personality will come through more and that is what makes a good relationship because looks fade but a good heart & personality will be there forever.
In general tho blokes don't realise this until they are at least 25
2006-07-15 06:29:09 · answer #6 · answered by madamspud169 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who says your ugly? Maybe you're a little unconventional looking or maybe it's all in your head. What is considered attractive differs from one person to another anyway.
My housemate fancies what I think to be right mingers and she said my ex boyfriend was too ugly for me. It's all a matter of personal taste.
Anyway if you want people to notice you, talk to them and be yourself,
Good luck!
2006-07-15 06:43:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try being fat like me then you'll soon realise that ugly aint that bad.
I've seen loads of stunning women with really minging guys but not a one of them was fat.
Fat is the biggest turn off of them all
2006-07-15 06:35:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are what u are, and that should shine through, i aint gorgeous, make people see you for what u are, being natural and not thinking about or looking for someone, makes u more noticeable, than exposing all body parts!!
2006-07-15 06:41:17 · answer #9 · answered by storm.minx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have the most stunning and addictive personality ever...dress nicely and make some effort and they wont care how you look because the "youness" will just draw them in
boys genuinely love a god personality asmuch as girls do
beauty is for the short term...for their long term girls they look a little deeper
o and confidence is sexy to guys
2006-07-15 06:36:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋