My bf works 6 days a week. We get along great. we give each other space and time to hang out with each others friends. He has one day off during the week and usually spends the time to see me on that day. On some of the days he works, he will seee me a little bit before he goes in to work. Problem is my parents are a pain in the *** telling me that he should be seeing me more. We see each other once or twice a week, which to me is fine. We are both busy. We both work, see our friends, and inbetween study (he still got one class to go and i have a license test coming up). We are both 24. I feel our relationship is fine, but my parents dont see that-I Gotta move out soon when i have the money!
2006-07-15 06:05:50 · 12 answers · asked by hersheybar99 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we're in the same boat, you can't change your parents' minds
2006-07-15 06:08:39 · answer #1 · answered by Everything 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So let me get this straight, your 13? and your going out with the 27 year old? Hmm.. The age difference is higher than your age.. EDIT: I didn't mean to say what the person above me said, I was in the middle of typing it.. but seriously? Wow. DOUBLE EDIT: He can get arrested because hes considered an adult and your still a teenager. Thats pheophila no matter if your truely in love or not.
2016-03-27 06:29:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents are extremely controlling, and only want perfection.
Nobody in this world is perfect. We try very hard to be the best we can in life and there is always someone who wants to control us, or make us think the way they do.
It is so frustrating, i understand. Best advice here is to be yourself and listen to your own heart first. Be polite when others tell you otherwise.
2006-07-15 06:08:25 · answer #3 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All that matters is how he fills about you and you about him. Love your parents but for your own good keep them out of your relationship. Especially if there are problems work them out only with your boyfriend.
2006-07-15 06:10:12 · answer #4 · answered by rordog2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live life for your own happiness and not the happiness of others. It's hard, but block out their words. If the relationship is working for you, that's all that matters.
2006-07-15 06:17:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya...who cares what your parents think you are your own person. but you should really work on getting out of your parents house being 24
2006-07-15 06:08:50 · answer #6 · answered by rockon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would recommend moving out lol...also, you are dating him, not your parents. I wouldnt let them bother you and whenever they start to say something negative about your boyfriend, stop them midsentence and let them know they are entitled to their opinion but you dont want to hear it, and out of respect for you, they should stop saying bad things about him. I had to do that with my parents and it worked for me....hopefully it works for you!! Good Luck
2006-07-15 06:11:30 · answer #7 · answered by LovableLibra84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time to get new parents lol if you got the money dont look back .run the hills girl I
2006-07-15 06:12:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when it comes to relationship only you know whats best for you just remember parents are looking out for u so dont get mad...
2006-07-15 06:36:26 · answer #9 · answered by vo00do0doll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think your relationship is going good then and you like him, then your parents will eventually see your way and will support you in your decision.
2006-07-15 06:11:15 · answer #10 · answered by peacefulwreck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋