my mother hates me alot she is always treats my sister much better than me is this normal?? or what and what can i do??
2006-07-15 05:49:13 · 9 answers · asked by angel e 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
just like with everyone sometimes parents and children just don't get along cause they are just not compatible!
so don't sweat it seriously hun! you will grow up and move out and have your own family eventually that will love you and respect you the way you deserve!
2006-07-15 05:54:24 · answer #1 · answered by half insane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surprise! Your mother does not hate you.
You rested in your mother's womb for 10 months and she took great care of you by giving you only the good things, and suffered great pain during child delivery and loads of uncomfort during the long time of pregnancy. Your being successfully born shows that she loves you alot.
Are you the older or the younger one? Actually it doesnt matter. Sometimes, your mother may seem to be better to another. But that is actually because she knows you can take care of yourself better than your sister.
If you think carefully, you will realise that she has showed her love in many other occasions.
Maybe you can think about ways to show your love for your mother, because she has gave you and your sister lots of precious priceless gifts of life. Be strong, dont think about why your mother "doesnt love" you. Think of how you can love your mother, and show her your maturity of being able to handle yourself well.
I am sure you can do this. Jiayou!
2006-07-15 12:59:17 · answer #2 · answered by himeno 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem when I was a kid. It was because of my younger brother that I did not get much attention. I just one day go over it and went on with my life. My mom still does not give me the attention that I desire sometimes but, I get that through my other family members such as grandmother, uncle, etc. Sometimes even my friends. Maybe you should seek attention on other family members in your life or tell her the problem you are having with her. She probably does not hate you. She probably has a busy life. I wish you luck.
2006-07-15 12:57:12 · answer #3 · answered by brooke992002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a mothers love is unconditional wether you relize it or not she does love you.She gave birth to you your her flesh and blood,Maybe your sister needs a little more than you do it doesnt mean she hates you.Listen i never knew my mom till about 1 year ago.Believe me its not easy finding out that you have a mom on the verge of death and youve hated her all your life.Its not easy im in consuling
2006-07-15 14:45:34 · answer #4 · answered by Rae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let do things to d world what u expect from others........ u see ur mother through a glass that she is not take caring me......if u want to read her completely let now remove the image u had abt ur mother and accept her as she is............
2006-07-15 13:54:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on what you do to her, are you naughty do you help around the house..? i think you need to find out what your sister is doing to be so more popular with you mum....
2006-07-15 12:53:05 · answer #6 · answered by james 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i talked to her last night, she said you stole your sister's undies.... i'm going to spank you!
2006-07-15 13:03:11 · answer #7 · answered by 4u2nv® 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your dad, bout it.
2006-07-15 12:53:19 · answer #8 · answered by koogii 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you respect her?
2006-07-15 12:52:25 · answer #9 · answered by ▲▼▲▼ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋