Is every man in his forties, who is passionate, dynamic and interesting going to turn out to be a cheat and a liar? In other words, are the only men with integrity boring? I need someone intense, multi-faceted, interesting to talk to, interesting to look at, on the slender side, with a high sex drive who enjoys using it within the context of a committed relationship. Is this possible?
The latest affront is this guy I've been communicating with on the internet. We've sent quite a few e-mails back and forth and he seemed very single, particularly since he was asking questions like: What tickles your toes? (Which I did not tell him.) . I begin probing a little further and it turns out he has a wife of twenty years, who is, according to him, "insanely jealous." Gee, I wonder why? You can call it innocent but if it's innocent why does he have to hide the fact? Why is spending so much time writing lengthy e-mails rather than playing with his wife?
Sorry for the rant. Solutions anyone?
2006-07-15 05:45:06 · 3 answers · asked by Dove 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
These guys are barking up the wrong tree, particularly since my husband had hurt me by trolling around the internet looking for something better while I was raising our kids alone and going through one of the most difficult times of my life. All this while telling me I'm "enough" for him.
Lesbianism is out and celebacy seems a shame at my age...
2006-07-15 05:47:47 · update #1
All men like all women come in all flavors and sizes.
Some are nice some are cheaters.
No matter what your age or theirs you will find a certain section of the population are cheaters.
Moral, honest men don’t have to be boring but some this is the way it is.
Keep trying, but vary where you try.
Hang out at a book club or church meeting.
Keep in mind that the right person could be right in front of your nose.
You just need to reassess them to see it.
2006-07-15 05:55:08 · answer #1 · answered by Ryce Queen 13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strangely, in my personal experince of relationships it has been the women that have been the ones that go out on a limb and not treated their relationhips with integrity... So, it's hard to say that it's only men...
But, I have to agree.. that this day and age it seems like people don't seem to keep the passion that drives their relationship in the first place... and loose that love... and it saddens me...
But keep trying, there is hope out there.. You just have to find the right guy...
2006-07-15 12:57:40 · answer #2 · answered by Rob D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you're bored, your e-pal is too and both of you find your release in communicating and exchanging your e-fantasies. Keep on living in your electronic euphoria until you go sober, no harm in that.
2006-07-15 12:52:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋