He confided this to me. Whenever he masterbated, he do it often, averaging 2X a night, straight in a week.But when we had full sex, we averaged about 2 X a week. He said it's the women's essence that makes him satisfied. He said he learned it somewhere in a chinese tao art of loving book. Is he just psychologically satisfied or his research has basis?He even don't ejaculate at times, reasoning that's part of the enlightenment. I haven't read that book, but it seems that his practices makes me satisfied fully. I always get the big O.
2006-07-15 05:26:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
Please don't let anyone make you feel bad by suggesting that you are not doing enough.
Masturbation and intercourse are two different kinds of pleasure. I am pretty sure you know this. Your husband, like most men, wants both. There is nothing wrong with this, and he does not have to provide any great philsophical justifications. The reason he does not score a high weekly average with intercourse is because it needs more effort than masturbation.
And, congratulations on being one of the few women who always get the Big O!
2006-07-15 05:38:53 · answer #1 · answered by Hermit 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The taoist tryed to use sexual energy for achieving eternal life.
They tryed to ejeculate inward by pressing a point between anus and root of penis. So by trying this they would fill their analog of chakras and after the lower" chakras" filled with energy they would overflow into higher, until it came to the crown and there would be repository of energy.
There is no scientifical base for it, but it is a chinese phylosophy and practice, and as lot of people practicin yoga so some practice taoism.
If your sex life is ok, and your marriage is ok, then let it be, or try to find some practice that works with couples, masturbation is a lonlely practice and tends to egoism, try some other practice as tantra yoga, or karezza it is the same only it works better for couples not singles.
Anyway 2x night is a litle extreme, tell him to read more about the practice, and practice less, there is more to it then masturbation.
2006-07-15 12:39:32 · answer #2 · answered by haruvatu 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he obivoulsy thinks he is not getting the sexual amount of pleasure from you as he wants.
If I was you , I would speak to him , and see exactly what he is after.
2006-07-15 12:29:49 · answer #3 · answered by Logan_brett 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might want more "poo nani" than u giving him
2006-07-15 12:31:18 · answer #4 · answered by biggprincejb9 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋