i just met this amazing guy who i have awesome chemistry with. We met online and talked on the phone for hours. We met in person and hung out for nearly 4 hours at a time. I really got to know him. The next time we met in person, we hung out for another 3-4 hours. I feel so comfortable around this guy. He has complimented me on how beautiful i was and i have amazing eyes. He also paid me compliments on my personality. He said to me, "you are so cool" He invited me to come watch movies at his house next week. We get along great.
The thing is... he hasnt initiated any physical contact. No hug. nothing. But he says I am very beautiful. I want to ask him but I dont want to make him think somethings wrong. He says I'm not like any other girl he's met simply because I dont have serious issues and baggage like the others.
Will he just ultimately put my in the girl buddy category or is he being very cautious at starting something serious??
PS..We make a lot of eye contact.
2006-07-15 05:26:11 · 5 answers · asked by marie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
take it slow, let him take his time he will warm up to u very soon
2006-07-15 05:33:35 · answer #1 · answered by kellieprocks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So.....you have met him twice and he has not touched you? Big deal! You have only know each other for what....8 hours. Do you really want a guy with his paws all over you right after he says hello?
I'd say he is talking his time. It's a good sign. Guys are slow and treat the girls they like with respect.....if he though less of you, he would have grabbed you already.
2006-07-15 12:32:57 · answer #2 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people of the opposite, who are single, aren't looking for "just friends". they are looking for a relationship. all the signs are there that he really likes you. don;t be bothered by the fact that nothing physical has happen yet. he might be shy. i dated a guy once that we didn't do anything physical for a while because he was physical early in all his other relationship, which went badly, and he wanted to try something different. you should be happy that he is respectful enough not to try. if it really bothers you, initiate contact yourself.
2006-07-15 12:35:00 · answer #3 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he loves you, but he is shy. you need to make the first move on him so he knows what you would like, and also ask him too.
2006-07-15 12:31:06 · answer #4 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know this is for guys, but i would seriously think about bringing a friend with you, or pepper spray when you go to his house, you never know......
2006-07-15 12:34:53 · answer #5 · answered by jane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋