I am one of 7 kids and my sister has always been the innocent one out of the bunch....but lately she has been dating a guy that is not right for her but she doesn't seem to see that....she's 18, he's 21, she has a job and a car, he doesn't have either...she has recently lost her virginity to him and his best friend calls him a hoe, my brothers and I are worried about her, she's a year younger than me and she and I are kinda close....how should we tell her that he is using her???? and that she doesn't need to be with someone who can't take care of himself much less her???......
2006-07-15 05:17:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is not much you can do. Sure you can sit down with her and rant and rave about how bad this guy is....but she will not care and will not listen. She is in love blindness. And pointing that out will just drive her closer to him.
This is something she has to figure out on her own...
2006-07-15 05:21:38 · answer #1 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you now,that at that age,if ou try and tell someone something like that,she wont listen to you and she will think you and your brothers dont want her to be happy.You need to try and catch him out,that is the only way she will see,is if you let her see for herself
2006-07-15 12:35:18 · answer #2 · answered by kill_the_barbies!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the more you try to forbid her to see him or speak out against will just drive her to rebel back in his arms.
Make sure she does not become cut off from her freinds and family. she might solve this problem her self by meeting a better man.
Keep the faith
2006-07-15 12:49:50 · answer #3 · answered by Ryce Queen 13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you can do is tell her how you feel and be there for her when she finally finds out the truth.
2006-07-15 12:21:02 · answer #4 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋