I mean who are we to say who is too "old" to have his first kiss or girlfriend. Not everyone's fortunate enough to be "popular" and "social" like some people. And do you have to be "outgoing" or the "life of the party" to experience a relationship with a female? This is open to all. Thank you
2006-07-15 05:00:39 · 26 answers · asked by antonio d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, and no. Anyway, you're never going to be able to run the clock backward and get younger, so what difference does it make?? We are where we are in life. Be the best that you can be, and develop yourself and your personality to the point where you are an interesting person whom others feel comfortable around. Learn how to converse intelligently and with a sense of humor on a variety of topics. Think about what unique things you can offer in a relationship. As for me and most women I know, we will take depth over superficiality any day. In a relationship, we are looking for a person who has good qualities...if we feel we need a clown in our lives we'll go to the circus.
2006-07-15 05:11:10 · answer #1 · answered by sunny1 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I'd say when you're ready is the right time. Don't let anyone tell you that you're too old. I dated early, but I had a friend who waited. He's not any better or worse for it, but we're very different people. It worked out well for both of us.
No you don't have to be the life of the party, but being at least a little bit outgoing is a good thing. But if you're TOO shy, it's hard to take that first step to starting a relationship, like TALKING to her. Good luck to you.
2006-07-15 05:04:49 · answer #2 · answered by Andi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck no it isn't too old, a little late maybe but not too old. No, you don't have to be outgoing or the life of the party to experience a strong meaningful relationship with a women. There's plenty of women who like yourself don't have those qualities just waiting for a nice guy to ask them out
2006-07-15 05:12:26 · answer #3 · answered by WILLIAM R T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh hon, you are lucky. I'll say this it is very refreshing to know that there are guys out there who have more on there minds than just sex. so what if you weren't popular, who cares. if you are honest, sincere, caring, respectful, not overbearing, kind and generous (not only with material things but with your emotions) and loving you will find that special someone and it will be awesome. and twenty one is not too old, if you have to wait 10 more years even for that special someone do it, don't let stupid people pressure you into something that isn't for you and then end up getting hurt. take your time sort yourself out first, whether it be job, home or some other interest you might have. all the best
2006-07-15 05:09:54 · answer #4 · answered by diva anne 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Now a days it is. I waited a long time. I was 18 when a girl first kissed me. It was the worst kiss in my life. It was along time before I tried it again.If I had to do it over I would start out at 8. And just think of all the pussy I passed up the by waiting. Now that I look back the girls must of know because they sure was after me.
2006-07-15 05:05:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not as common to find a 21 yr old who has yet to date or kiss, but not too old. You don't have to be the "life of the party" or uber-social, if someone is attracted to you( vice-versa) the relationship and everything else will fall into place.
2006-07-15 05:04:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO you are not too young but i think its time you take a look at yourself to see if you are happy taking things at the pace you are- and thank god u 21 as some times school can damage a persons self esteem- don't worry you have your whole life to learn and if you are eager to get a head start self help books are amazing.
2006-07-15 05:04:27 · answer #7 · answered by candystore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no age is ever too old to want to have a meaningful relationship with someone. some people don't have to opportunities to experience things that others do. my cousin is a farmer and lives in a very small town. he is in his 40's and is getting married for the first time. he just never had to opportunity to meet anyone. you don't have to be an outgoing person to find someone. you just have to be yourself.
2006-07-15 05:04:03 · answer #8 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, but you don't really have to be outgoing to be attractive. I find "life of the party" people to be complete idiots with inflated egos, and would rather date a quiet intellectual. Good luck, I hope you find what you're looking for.
2006-07-15 07:53:29 · answer #9 · answered by reverenceofme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People have there own life experiences. No one has to be like anyone else.
Not all outgoing males are in relationships.
Just be yourself.
Whatever suppose to happen will happen in time.
2006-07-15 05:06:41 · answer #10 · answered by Latoya L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋