Just about guys in general, what is it you like about us? What don't you like? What should we work on? Is a good body important? Please, we want to know!
2006-07-15 04:54:30 · 20 answers · asked by jxt299 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Here's the story - most girls want a guy to be her best friend and her biggest fan. She wants a guy who makes her feel beautiful and special and who will laugh with her when she is not. She wants someone she can be proud to walk in a room with and someone she can trust to try new things with. She wants someone who wants to spend lots of time with her but will also encourage her to do things on her own so she can grow in directions she wants to. She wants someone she can count on to be there for her in times of trouble and someone who will do what he says he will do. Someone who will share his feelings and experiences with her and count on her like a best friend too.
So, it's different for each of us - the specifics can vary widely - but I think essentially that is what we are looking for in a man.
Bodywise, me personally - I love a nice upper body. Give me some shoulders, strong arms and a nice chest and I am very well pleased. I also love the beautiful eyes and cologne can be very intoxicating. I like the musk scents, personally - and a tip is wear only enough that she can get a whiff and then must be close to you to smell it well.
Peace!
2006-07-15 05:15:49 · answer #1 · answered by carole 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally could care less if a man is purple and polka dotted. The outside means nothing to me. Unlike some people, I like what a man or anyone has inside of them. Beauty is only skin deep, the true beauty is what a person has in themselves. A good personality, a healthy sense of humor, a healthy sense of common sense and the willingness to show emotions.
Some of the most beautifulest people in this world are the "ugly ducklings" of society. People, both men and women focus way too much emphasis on looks these days. If you don't have a body of a model or a wash board stomach, you are considered a "worthless creature" and looked down upon by both sexes. To me this is wrong.
Men and women both have to take the time in getting to know people and not pass down judgements on them for what they don't have etc. Men aren't the only ones that have this type of discrimination, women have it as well.
2006-07-15 12:05:08 · answer #2 · answered by Lyndee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it totally depends on the guy. some guys that are totally "hideous" can be attractive once you get to know them. my current boyfriend isnt someone that everyone would say is hot. well, i do. he's obese, but i cant get enough of his broad strong shoulders and forearms..... and the eyes..........and that butt..... hmmmm... oh, excuse me. but yes, it can be anything that a woman finds attractive, which would make them attracted to the person overall, at least this is what i have found.
i think its so much more important to have values and be trustworthy and a good guy in general. i'd rather have the personality over the hot bod anyday. seems like the guys with the rock hard bodies are all too self centered to care about anyone other then themselves most of the time.
2006-07-15 12:00:17 · answer #3 · answered by mickey g 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good body is not important, but sometimes it helps. I like a guy with a mind, strong will and soul. But most of all a great kisser. I think kissing is the hottest thing.
2006-07-15 11:57:31 · answer #4 · answered by Ratzrcute 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. One time I was trying out for the cheerleading squad at West Jefferson High School, and my outfit was a little too big. I flipped right out of it and was naked, (except for my panties and shoes and socks), in front of the whole student body during an in-school football game. (You really don't want to know.) My top was showing-
(Sigh. . . . . . . . . . .)
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2006-07-15 11:56:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like a guy who is honest and funny.Im a joker and can have my fun. But i like a guy who doesnt mind just chilling and kicking back. Honesty is the best cuz with out it then there is nothing
2006-07-15 11:57:22 · answer #6 · answered by whatgoing13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like an honest, decent guy with a good clean sense of humor. I'll admit though, that initially it helps if you're in shape.
2006-07-15 11:57:30 · answer #7 · answered by smartee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
long legs = a big plus
Honesty
respectful towards his mother and sister- then I know he'll be that way with me
very clean person, - one who bathes daily, smells good, has great taste in cologne
teeth- got to have all, and in good condition
a sweet smelling breath-not like poop
hair- clean and cut to his face, facial hair also
in shape- no fat hanging
his job- been there for years
the way he dresses- not sloppy, or dirty
2006-07-15 11:59:39 · answer #8 · answered by Moose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a perfect body isnt necessary but neither a ugly body would attract me!! in a girl i like to be a little bit crazy and sweet
2006-07-15 11:58:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like clean,honest and humour guys.The guys should always act like a gentleman and always take care of the girls.
2006-07-15 12:08:55 · answer #10 · answered by chean92 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋