Met a fab guy at a party. Went to his place for breakfast. But refused to get it on because had no protection and wasn't kinda ready for it although really wanted to, instead suggested he asked for my phonenumber to meet later. He refused, saying life is quick. But I wanted more then just a 1 night stand.
2006-07-15 04:49:46 · 23 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
look hon, he's an idiot and thank God not the kind of idiot to take advantage. first of all what you did was pretty risky, condoms aren't 100% protection and you shouldn't have sex on a whim, but with someone you know, love and are committed to. At least you had the presence of mind to refuse because of the lack of protection, but don't only not want more than one night stands, but respect and love yourself to realise that life has a lot more to offer that picking up some guy at a party or bar to have hot sex because he's good looking, what happens next time some fab guy has the condom, will you do it, then to find out he only is into one night stands? hon check yourself. all the best.
2006-07-15 05:01:57 · answer #1 · answered by diva anne 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only "right thing" part of this is refusing because you weren't ready. Count yourself very fortunate that he took "no" for an answer and your question is not about date rape. If you want more than a one night stand then be more than a one night stand and don't be so quick to share breakfast.
2006-07-15 11:57:00 · answer #2 · answered by Hums2oldies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better safe than sorry - I think you did the right thing by not sleeping with him with no protection, particularly someone who thinks "life is quick".
Having said that, I must say that I have found in my life that when I pass up on something that I really want to do because I know it isn't the right thing for me, it seems I am shortly afterwards richly rewarded. So keep and eye out!
Peace!
2006-07-15 11:55:11 · answer #3 · answered by carole 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you did the right thing. All ways strap up before doing the do! You are not a romantic fool by a long shot. But, leave him alone all he wants is what is in your pants. so, just hop on to another man!
2006-07-15 11:53:24 · answer #4 · answered by Teri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh don't worry you did the right thing- if he wanted to score than you are not that kind of girl. give yourself a break, you want someone who can respect you not someone who is going to tell you life is too short to respect your body. a lot of people make mistakes from one night stands. make sure you are ready and mature enough to handle the what comes after the 3 mins pleasure. good luck :)
2006-07-15 11:54:17 · answer #5 · answered by candystore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO you are not a romantic fool. You are sensible. Why waste your time with something so unsubstantial. Also why put your health at risk? There is nothing wronf for expecting more out of life. Also you respect yourself. Why be used for a mere toy and then discarded?
2006-07-15 11:52:30 · answer #6 · answered by Miriah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, you did the right thing for absolute sure. If he would not even take the time to meet you later, then you for sure do not want to be with him immediately. Get rid of him and move on. You should at least have a girls number before sleeping with them
2006-07-15 11:56:26 · answer #7 · answered by showtimegk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a lame excuse, the guys a player and was just trying to get some quick action. Forget him
2006-07-15 11:51:45 · answer #8 · answered by Eric S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Home-made condoms are affordable and easy to make. If you'd thought of using Saran Wrap and a rubber band, you two would still be together.
2006-07-15 11:53:05 · answer #9 · answered by rev_charles_russell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing.
At least you learned now he's a jerk, instead of after you slept with him. Hold your standards, not all guys are like that.
2006-07-15 11:53:25 · answer #10 · answered by Chris H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋