How does a 65 year old, obese female find a male companion ? Are they all looking for "hot chicks"?

Question

Most men seem to want a companion who looks good, so, if she doesn't look good, she doesn't have a chance. They don't seem to care to take time to know the real person and get to learn her qualities.

Answer 1

It's possible that a similarly obese male might be interested in a person like that. I don't think everyone is looking for "hot chicks." I'm certainly not, but let's face it, obesity isn't a physical characteristic that most of us are looking for either. If you are going to live with your obesity, you should try to hook up with someone who is doing the same thing.

Answer 2

Not necessarily "hot chicks" but nature intended for men to be visual creatures, they are first attracted to what they 'see'. It means then,that even if you have good qualities, you have to be able to attract a mate. Even if you are obese, you can still attract someone if you take care of yourself.
If that means having to lose a few pounds HECK! why not? Do it for yourself first and you wont have to be intimidated or constantly feel that you have to be competing with "hot chicks".

also..when you look your best, IT BUILDS your confidence so you dont have to settle for just "any man". ONLY THE BEST IS GOOD ENOUGH FOR YOU!
All the Best!

Answer 3

It is sad to say that most men tend to judge a book by its cover, but a true one would look at what is inside. I think that there are men out there for you, yes finding them will be hard but sometimes when you are not looking, they will find you. I hope that you do find someone..its no fun to be alone...regardless of size, age, color,etc.

Answer 4

Sorry she cannot find. Plus why do sshe needs one, she should be a nice granny now

Answer 5

There's a lid for every pot. Try this website..

www.plussizeconnection.com

Answer 6

to me it dont matter, what matters is that the two people loves each other. heck age, color and religon dont matter to me either.