me and my gf have been together for two years..we had a rough start..but now we are in love with each other now..
we are going to university next month and she is working at a school as a relief teacher for the time being..yest i met her for lunch..we kissed..she paid for half of my lunch..just a day earlier i had surprised her with a perfume she liked..but then she started behaving weirdly after i brought her a drink..after much drama she finally told me that she has started to like a colleague of hers at work..up till now she was telling me they are just friends and i trusted her fully.. iam so hurt but its just a matter of two more weeks so just gona bear with it..my heart can't forgive her although i know you can't control feelings..we came close to breaking up late in the night but we love each other too much to let go...she told me she feels suffocated in the rship..she says i shouldnt expect her to be as devoted as me.im confused.
2006-07-15 03:40:24 · 10 answers · asked by AkS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First what was she doing paying for half of your lunch? Second what is your question?
2006-07-15 03:43:04 · answer #1 · answered by doc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, well i do agree with the other girl about her paying your lunch, you should be buying her lunch....but besides that, dont worry so much, if you two are meant to be together forever, then you will be no matter what type of problems you run into. it is possible that she may think she is missing out on other things in life while she is with you. i went thru this myself, but just take it day by day and if she desides to break things off with you, then let her go. she may realize that you are the true one that she is supposed to be with, she just may need time.
2006-07-15 10:48:44 · answer #2 · answered by taceysay02@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be confused. She is breaking up with you. This happens all the time during big life transistions, like going to Uni.
I know this is very sad, but you will be meeting tons of new women in a month, and the chances are very good that one of them will be much better for you than this one.
Best wishes for you.
2006-07-15 10:44:48 · answer #3 · answered by voxwoman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude I'm sorry to say it but your Girl friend has been cheating on you. you can tell from the sentence "she told me she feels suffocated in the rship..she says i shouldnt expect her to be as devoted as me." basically she has most likely been sleeping with that guy. sorry to say it but that the cold hard life for you. find someone better.
2006-07-15 10:46:14 · answer #4 · answered by Phycological Genius 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the problem is that she's confused upon what she wants.. She sees this guy, and she decided that it might be a decent option to go with... I'd say that you two might need some time to sort through what your thinking... Because if she really did love you, she really shouldn't have second thoughts like this...
2006-07-15 10:45:13 · answer #5 · answered by Rob D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wants another man, let her go and if u guys are meant to be together she will come back someday
2006-07-15 10:45:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anthony4Christ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well bro i think u should let her go
coz i no from my own experience that she will do this again
they dont change bro
2006-07-15 10:45:13 · answer #7 · answered by ghost13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not good
she is not the one for you
don't waste your time on her
she is not ready yet
2006-07-15 10:44:24 · answer #8 · answered by matt0424 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dump the ho
2006-07-15 10:49:45 · answer #9 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is full of **** send her bye bye.
2006-07-15 10:45:20 · answer #10 · answered by jm_cancel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋