while im with my bf i am thinking of someone else as well
wat do i do?
2006-07-15 03:21:56 · 41 answers · asked by acnemycin 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask God to help you focus your thoughts. This is going to happen even more when you get married someday!
2006-07-15 03:23:16 · answer #1 · answered by mrsdebra1966 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
normal!Your love to your BF in not sincere but you do like him for a company because you have no choice,because you are not close to the guys of your dream!Don't fool him,try to get out from that relationship rather than having a miserable situation! And don't take him for granted just to show you have a lover because you are not really fooling your BF and your friends,it's yourself that you are fooling!Be honest and be happy! Good luck!
2006-07-15 03:26:51 · answer #2 · answered by tutax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long have you been thinking about this "someone" everytime you're with your bf? coz if it has been awhile, maybe there's a need for you re-evaluate your feelings since it is not healthy for your relationship. and before you decide on something, think 10 times before considering taking actions on your decision. it might not matter now, but it will affect you in some ways.
2006-07-15 03:28:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a bf, and I always think of this guy. But the guy isn't my bf. If you really want to stop thinking about this other guy, consider talking to your bf about it.
ToOdLeS
2006-07-15 03:24:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spank yourself. Then look up the word commitment in the dictionary. If you don't have it, then you don't have a relationship. Cut your bf loose and save him the heartache you will cause him. Don't give anyone else a commitment until you understand it and are ready, it's not fair.
2006-07-15 03:26:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop dating this poor guy. You don't like him that well. Go try to get a date with the guy you are thinking of. If not him find one who you do really like. Don't date someone you don't like that well. It just hurts you and them in the long run. Now be a nice person. OK?
2006-07-15 03:27:02 · answer #6 · answered by ldp999000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like either you like someone else and you should give that person a try or you are worried that if you feel to much for your current bf he will leave you
2006-07-15 03:24:10 · answer #7 · answered by skits 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, this is called fantasy or fanticizing and is very normal.. Hey, ya think your boyfriend dosen't do it as well.. Allthough us guys have a tendency to think about any thing but sex, during sex..(Makes us last longer) But when he looks down at the top of your head, beleive me it is not always you he sees.. This is normal..
2006-07-15 03:25:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most people daydream about some thing or someone they can't have but want, no you are not bad just normal, don't worry about it , just don't call your boyfriend the wrong name , that might be bad
2006-07-15 03:25:17 · answer #9 · answered by diablo0470 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol that happened to me b4 except i was actually saying the other persons name through the whole conversation he caught on heres what you should do lol try to control it think about the other person away from ur boyfriend and then when u with ur bf think about somethin good on ya man and try to think about that so when he say what you thinkin bout u can tell him that lol and it might turn him on
2006-07-15 03:25:54 · answer #10 · answered by nina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are dishonest only if you are not telling it your bf,not bad .work out problem is with you or with your bf and get the solution to get on one side
2006-07-15 03:24:12 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋