me and the girl i'm courting had a fight twice, because of my insecurity and jealousy (why? i felt before we have a mutual understanding since i'm the only one she's dating according to her). the second fight was the worst and maybe the last. but after two weeks i had a chance to talk to her. she told me that she won't take any suitors for the meantime. and we become acquaintances again so we don't ignore each other. i really do LOVE her, not just like her. but i wasn't able to control myself then. she pointed to me that i must know first the girl more before i can court so i can build trust on the girl. she wants this status quo, so there will be no expectations. and because i LOVE her, i will respect her decision and take some time so i can also fix what is wrong with me. but then i wish to court her again, then will my persistence lead to something bad and eventually totally shut me off from her?
2006-07-15 02:50:02 · 5 answers · asked by tsambalero 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ladies, thank you so much for your replies. i do really need these...
2006-07-15 03:53:49 · update #1
ur office mate? does ur office policies ok with dating among staffs? if OK and since u LOVE her then y stop? y be puzzled? there is never end until she says end. remember until she says END, get over, stop, no more
fight? tt is so comman.. in building relationship between human. fight means u have different point of view, u try to know her mind and u share out what yours. a relation without a fight is a question. fight and get back, fight and get back maybe tiresome but it gives u a clear description on who and what this person u love and give her a description about YOU. Because of fight too both of u can know what u and she dislike/like.
dont expect anything yet, just go on. go on persue her, go on be her friend, see if tt is real love or just inflatuation, take some time to adjust urself and her. see if u share something tt can make u be togather.
tt is what fight for ... good luck
2006-07-15 03:02:57 · answer #1 · answered by simplelife76 2 · 9⤊ 2⤋
1. office relationships hardly work out. 2. Most women do not like signs of jealousy and having fights about why was she talking to that person. Kind of makes you think the person you are with is controlling.
2006-07-15 09:59:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in love with the idea of being in love, not this girl. If she says you can't know her well enough yet to love her, I'd bet cash money that she's right. Back off, leave her alone, and wait until you are more mature before deciding you want to be with someone.
2006-07-15 09:56:11 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i definitely agree with JJ.
know yourself better as well if you are the right guy for this girl.
2006-07-15 09:59:21 · answer #4 · answered by jen_mauve 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe not, work relationship always get messy.
2006-07-15 09:55:09 · answer #5 · answered by hateizmybestfriend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋