we share the same group of guy friends, and we are always together..and i was wondering if its a good idea to give him "space" you know, to hang out with the guys..he hasnt said anything and everything is great..its just a thought .. i dont want him to get tired of me lol
2006-07-15 02:45:47 · 31 answers · asked by ♥ms.peREz?♥ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lol. its a good thing ur asking that cuz u dnt wanna annoy him so much he'll leave u. im warning you watever u do if hes the jealous type dnt hang out with guy friends,he'll get pissed. but if he didnt say anything i suggest you try to pay attention to his attitude and then c. if u dnt notice nything then just go on doing wat ur doing. now just dnt stalk him let him spend at least 1 nite with his friends.
2006-07-15 02:54:41 · answer #1 · answered by lilou 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have the same thing going on with some of my friends. We would hang out together CONSTANTLY, and I was wondering if he was getting tired of being around me (personally, I don't think that I'm that interesting, but anyways). I tried to back off a little, and he reacted pretty badly. I think that it depends on your friend and his personality. My friend becomes very attached to people. I don't know about your friend, but if you just think about how he acts normally, I think you should be able to figure it out. Good Luck!
2006-07-15 09:50:55 · answer #2 · answered by gene_is_guilty42 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a bad idea.... it can help to keep your relationship from going stale... but make sure that if you give him his time to do his thing, that you make the most of that time for you too... catch up with girlfriends, pamper yourself... whatever tickles your fancy. But I would also talk to him about it.... communication is the essence of a great relationship... and you wouldnt want him to think that you were just pulling away from him, when your intentions are all good!
2006-07-15 09:50:07 · answer #3 · answered by spinksy2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You really should not hang out with him and his friends all of the time b/c eventually he is going to get tired of it and tell you to leave him alone. Don't you like spending time w/just the girls? He is the same way when it comes to spendig time w/just the guys.
2006-07-15 09:49:05 · answer #4 · answered by RainCloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, if he want space he will ask for it. If you tell him to hang out with his friends he might think that your getting tired of him lol. Let things roll as they may
2006-07-15 09:48:07 · answer #5 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he seems like he may want some space (without saying it), it's probably a good idea, especially if you think he might want it. If he hasn't given any indication of it whatsoever, there'd really be no need to change unless YOU want space.
2006-07-15 09:47:46 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its not broke why fix it? Are you bored? Do you feel that maybe you need some time away from him? Maybe you can ask him if he would like some time with his friends without you and see how he reacts. Maybe he loves you around...seems like you guys have a great relationship--communication is important too. Good luck :-)
2006-07-15 09:51:08 · answer #7 · answered by CTMEDS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-07-15 09:47:19 · answer #8 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should first talk to him and ask him what he wants and then work off of that. if he says he wants more time to hang out him his friends then give him more time or "space" as you call it.
2006-07-15 09:50:20 · answer #9 · answered by Skittlefingers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yes some guys don't like u to be around them when they are around they friends talking it makes them feel uncomfortable so give him a littlle space u could go and hang out with friends
2006-07-15 09:49:34 · answer #10 · answered by angel h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋