Im 33 years old, im extemely tall, dark, and some say handsome. Why am i alone the majority of the time?

Question

Should i settle to keep from being lonely? Dont most people do that anyway? Where are the decent good women? The truthful women, the intelligent women, the mature confident women with little or no issues? Where is my wife?

Answer 1

boss, the truth is that in today's world woman no longer need a tall dark man to make then feel good. they are suave and an independent breed now and they are moreover even getting adventure with their own sex. all they need is a pet now to be there when they want it emotionally and can leave him back home without any worries

Answer 2

Sweetheart, if you think looks alone are going to be the foundation of a long, healthy relationship, then that's just the beginning of your problems. Looks have nothing to do with finding and keeping a mate. Some of the happiest couples I know are not what you'd consider "attractive."
Get advice from your friends that know you better. Ask them to be brutally honest to you, and give you some pointers as to where you can improve. (It's possible you could just be really picky.) What works best is if you're dating a woman, and for some reason, she no longer wants to date you, ask her why. Every time you do this, you could find something about yourself to improve.
And if you're looking for an honest, intelligent woman, then she's not going to look anything like a super model. A woman's looks tend to be a direct ratio to her intelligence: in other words, the really so-called "attractive" women aren't typically very smart and an intelligent woman isn't shallow enough to spend hours and hours on her appearance.

Answer 3

First of all, you mentioned nothing about your personality. Many women rate that as the most important quality in a potential mate. Second, no one should have to settle. Most people I know have not settled. Try to be patient and have fun. Maybe you are putting too much pressure on finding a wife.

Answer 4

Perhaps you've just chosen the wrong women in the past. So many people have these ideas about what the "right" partner is for them, and so pass up many good opportunities to connect with someone. Open your horizons for dating. Date people you wouldn't have normally dated. You may be surprised that you're better suited to these people than you'd originally thought. You don't have to settle, but don't restrict yourself too much. If you always look for "between 5'5 and 5'9, thin, blond, green eyes, funny, scientist type" you may miss out on your mate in a 5'4 curvy brunette artist. Good luck to you.

Answer 5

You should never settle for less, I myself am 30 and have a 10 year old son. For years I had settled "just to keep myself from being lonely", but in the end it never worked out b/c in the long run I found out that through settling I wasn't happy and a lot of the times I changed myself to become the person that "my mate" wanted me to be so that I wouldn't be alone and most of the time they didn't treat me good anyway. After my family had seen me go through so many changes, my father finally sat me down and said to me "If a man can not treat you just as good as I do then you don't need him. And if you want a good man in your life then you need to pray about it and God will give you what you want & need." Although my father died last Oct. those words that he said to me a couple of years ago always stuck with me. I did what he said and prayed about it so much that I got tired of praying, so I left it alone b/c I wanted God to send me the person that "HE" wanted me to have. So you should do the same thing, pray about it and leave it alone and let God send you the person that he thinks you should have b/c God never makes mistakes! Oh by the way I am getting married next year, so it worked for me! Just remember "you my be loney but your never alone if you have God in your life."

Answer 6

You know, as a person lives his or her life, they pick up issues or baggage. There is no such person with no issues. You should instead find someone with whom you can share the issues and help each other get past them. Maybe your expectations are too high. I'm not saying that you should settle for just anyone but maybe your "perfect" mate is standing right there in front of you holding a few issues and so you have passed her by.

Answer 7

You are at the age where most think they are happly married. Don't worry soon it all turns around and there will be more women then you want. First most people look the rong places for a good girl. Most look in baes. You won't find her there.
1. Go to church look there
2. No girls there go to another church
3 . go to Wal-Mart , don't be shy
4. try a singels dating club
5. look where you work
You have a long life ahead of you. Don't mess it up with the wrong girl. Your will get even longer.

Answer 8

Have you tried asking your self that question? i mean, really really ask your self? there are many decent women out there and if you can't find any, perhaps it's time to lower your expectation in finding a perfect match for your 'extemely-tall-dark-and-some-say-handsome' personality. I'm not saying that you have issues. All I'm saying is that ... you might :)

Answer 9

I too match few qualities of you but not dark and too tall. I too am lonely. BUT why do u think that girls are lonely. Fact is that all of them have been taken when we had a chance to pick one. Now none are left. Yea few left ones we both can try. Lets work in team and make sure we both earn atleast 6 so that we can share 3 each.

Answer 10

Well women might think ur taken or women might think you can choose anyone?

I like older guys! im 24 yrs old! but, I wouldnt approach any older guy just because I would think they could get any body why me?

Dont settle for anyone! because u wont be happy!
Your still young! Dont u enjoy being single? Even though I havent had my first boyfriend yet, I enjoy being single! Im sure I will get tired of it but, Im enjoying finding myself and loving myself!

I dont know what to tell u, but Just be you! but,Dont settle with anyone!

There will be some woman who will make u nervous and scared and comfortable and u cant keep ur eyes off of her! Then you'll know! Maybe u crossed her path already , subconsciously u might like her but, it just havent reached ur left side of ur brain!?