My partner has left me 2 weeks ago and says I'm boring? What can I do about it?

Question

I don't think me being boring is why she left. I think its an excuse. I think she is probably seeing someone else, I'm not sure but my son 2 year old son is involved and I'm more worried how it will affect him.

By the way I'm not a girl!

Answer 1

Fight for custody of your son and forget about her lame excuses. Have pride in yourself and for your son. If she is too immature that she would rather be boinking other guys than take care of your son, let her and you take responsibility! Nothing is hotter than a loving, single dad and girl will line up to help you with you cutie.

Answer 2

It appears that your relationship has been there for quite some time. If so,the excuse now of your being boring now sounds so hollow. And yet you carry out a merciless self-examination to find out if you have been wanting in this. Usually it so happens that with long association the relatiopnship settles down to a set pattern. This sometimes affects the charm. A Sanskrit stanza defines beauty as something changes from moment to moment. Find out for yourself if you have come to take the association for granted and has abandoned all efforts to make it sustain as you would be doing whenthe relationship was new. Even the daily sleeping together which waters the tree of love and keeps it alive may sometimes become a daily regmarole.Care has therefore to be taken that it maintains it magic today and always.In the Indian treatise on sex called Kokshastra(The system of Preceptor Koka) there are so many positions to be adopted in copulation have been given that just reading them causes excitement. It will certainly do when they are actually adopted with mutual consent. The long and short is that a relationship needs almost daily care to its maintenance.Review your position and try to go through it all over again. Just calling it a day and going in for a change will not help for long if you do not maintain vigilance on this front and there will be only a reptetions one after the other.It is not the thing but the method that matters.

Answer 3

What you should do instead of trying to get her back is not be boring anymore. Start by always being the man with the plan. Do NOT ask, "So what do you want to do today?" Always have a plan, always. Also, make her laugh her *** off at all times, but don't be afraid to be passionate and serious. When you first start dating your new woman don't smother her with attention, money, etc. On your first date you want to take her out for a cup of coffee and win her over using only your personality.

Think for a minute about what boring is. It doesn't involve lack of doing anything. It involves doing the SAME things. So, what you want to do is be different than other guys, and make sure she knows it. For instance, the people who live in NYC don't visit the Statue of Liberty very often because it's always there. However, visitors to NYC will always check it out because it's new and different to them.

Another thing that kills most guys is being predictable. Don't always do the same thing with women. Change up everything once in a while from the way you dress to the cologne you wear.

Lastly, don't be afraid to make fun of women when you're on your date. I know it may sound strange, but if you tease them and treat them like a good friend it'll work in your favor. For instance, if she says she likes something, call her a "Dork" and give her a smile. I bet she wasn't expecting that one :) All women love to be teased in a playful way and laughter will get those good feelings flowing through her.

Answer 4

Do you think you are boring?.. If the answer is yes, do something about it...on the other hand is that just her excuse to blame you for something she may be upto?

My advice would be to go out and make new friends think about spicing up your life with interesting things to do, but hey be careful, you could meet someone, get yourself a new exciting non boring hobby and still end up as a bore...be versatile and mix your interests!...and if she is intimating that you are boring in bed...buy a few dvd's (wink wink) and get some tips, so the next lady is never bored!

Answer 5

Ignore what she said, she's tired of playing at House with the kid that she's not really responsible for and wants to go clubbing instead.
Its not you. Don't worry about your son, at 2 it won't have made a huge impact on him and is better than screaming rows. Just focus on building a good life for the pair of you and hopefully you'll meet the kind of person the pair of you deserve.

Answer 6

If ya'll wasn't 2gether that long then don't worry yo self about it. If so still don't worry yo self 'bout it. Move 2 the next 1. When that old 1 thinks u boring the next 1 think u not. Smile and move on... It's 2 many 2 just think 'bout 1. THEIR LOST!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 7

Forget that person-its only someones opinion/excuse to break up. There are so many different people you can meet, your are bound to be interesting to some one else.

what you do about this harsh opinion really depends on how you feel about yourself.

Answer 8

Move on to someone else that appreciates the real you.
Or perhaps you should try to make your life more interesting and not be a bore to others.

Answer 9

I'm sure he can find a lady with whom he won't feel bored and of course you can have a great time with someone who shares your interests! Don't take it personally. I'm sure you 've got a lot to give and take...

Answer 10

I guess he did not appreciate you for who you are. Don't worry about it; it's probably just his sorry opinion. Get back out into the world!